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Search Results: how to attract guys
Why do I attract younger men?
I'm married to a man 5 years older then me and I've always preferred older men when it's came to relationships. I'm very happily married and my husband is the love of my life but before I met him I struggled getting men...
Anonymous
(25-29) Told im handsome, female friends say my profiles look good, but I get maybe 3-5 matches a YEAR across 3 apps for dating, ate they really harsh on men?
29, 5’10. Often called handsone or cure etc. even here mostly rated a 7 with a few saying 8-9 etc. occasionally a 6. I am selective, only attracted to slim women with cute faces so I’m not like guys who just swipe right...
Anonymous
(30-35) If men love when women dress modest then why is there this assumption that women wearing revealing clothes is for mens attention?
I noticed a lot of men say that women wear revealing clothing for male attention but how would that even make sense when the large majority of men are attracted to modesty? Wouldn't dressing for male attention be...
Does this mean Im ugly? Yes I do avoid these types of guys? How can I stop attracting them? Im quiet and basic?
The guys I usually attract are either rude, toxic, have mommy issues, or lack respect for women. I tend to attract guys who call me names like "ugly bitch" or just "bitch," or who say I'm not that attractive but still...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does my guy best friend have feelings for me?
Me (F27) and my best friend (M 33) have been close for about 3 years now. We actually met through work, he had asked me to lunch and eventually we got close. We usually drink together and we have also slept in the same...
Anonymous
(30-35) If a guy coworker acts hot and cold what does this mean?
A guy worker seemed to be really attracted to me for several months, but recently he’s been blowing hot and cold. Some weeks he’ll be really warm and friendly and the next he’ll be cold and barely look at me. It’s like...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I make a good first impression after a long time to a guy as a shy girl?
It's a complicated situation but me and this guy don't know if we want to be together or just be friends. I've known him for 6 years and we are in a relationship right now after being best friends for so long. It's a long...
french_omelette
Xper 2 Age: 19 Why are younger men attracted to older women? Seeking some perspective?
I'm 41, but I look younger thanks to good genes and staying fit. I'm a mom to two amazing girls under 9, and although I'm separated, I carry myself with a joyful, confident, and sassy energy. Lately, I've noticed that I'm...
Tulipep1
Xper 3 Age: 42 What was the stupidest instance you've ever seen of someone being called "gay" for no good reason?
For me, it was this gay who was accused of being gay for NOT being attracted to his mother and sister... I'm serious. His mother and sister were extremely attractive. Like the most attractive a person can be without...
EzraIsShy76028
Xper 7 Age: 24 I’m sexually attracted to a guy and…?
I want to sleep with him. At least once anyway. I don’t want to come off as a slut or desperate, but he’s my type (tall, smart, older… 🤤). Anyway, I’ve tried flirting and wearing alluring perfume, but he doesn’t seem to...
jazzy34
Guru Age: 36 Have you ever been stalked by somebody you had no relationship or connection to at all over some minor grudge they nursed against you?
One guy that I sent brief emails to online to through a digital app around 13 years ago was angry I offended his religious beliefs with my comments about religion and God and he has been trying to get his girlfriend to...
Did he say this just to hurt me?
I met a guy at a social event several months ago. We spoke for several months and I met up with him last week. I’ve thought back on everything and I think he is a misogynist. He would go on rants about “European” woman,...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
How can a black girl attract non black guys?
Yes, she’s not ghetto, loud, or fat. She doesn’t speak AAVE. She’s very shy and quiet.
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, He asked me to be his girlfriend, but he doesn't take the time to get to know me. He’s evasive when I ask about him. Should I be concerned?
This guy that I know whom I met through a mutual friend, asked me to be his girlfriend. The only thing that worries me is that he doesn’t ask questions about me or try to get to know me properly. Also, when I ask him...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did she led me on? I believe she wanted to be friends but maybe after seeing me cry she felt guilty?
Met a girl through a dating app. After 2 weeks of chatting and a few video calls, we met in person. 1st date: She brought me a home-baked cookie. 2nd date: She said, “I’ve friendzoned a lot of guys.” 3rd date: Went...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he trying to attract women?
If a guy’s profile features him showing off his muscles and body, and includes a picture of him showering, is he trying to look sexy or appeal to women?
Anonymous
(18-24) 