I’m sexually attracted to a guy and…?

[jazzy34]

I want to sleep with him. At least once anyway. I don’t want to come off as a slut or desperate, but he’s my type (tall, smart, older… 🤤). Anyway, I’ve tried flirting and wearing alluring perfume, but he doesn’t seem to get it. He hasn’t rebuffed my flirting, but he doesn’t seem to get it. Again, I don’t want to come right out say “hey, you wanna have sex?” I’m usually a bold and upfront person, but for something like this, I want to be more subtle. Any tips? Thanks

(Please note: I am aware of my age, but I’ve never done something like this before. So, if you’re going to be sarcastic or remind me of my age, please refrain from those unhelpful comments. I need actual help. Thank you).

[spartan55]

He's not going to know you want to have sex unless you let him know. Letting him know doesn't necessarily mean telling him. Hope that helps.

[jazzy34]

Doesn’t necessarily mean telling him. What do you mean?

[spartan55]

Like someone else suggested, invite him over for dinner. Or ask him out for drinks then invite him back to your place at the end of the night.

[Bricealan]

@jazzy34 I tend to go with @CubaPirate and solicit a coffee date... never hurts to be bold.. I tend to be stand offish' and usually have to be hit in the head with a hammer to get that she is interested in my... unless she puts her hand down in my pants?👀👀🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake... Just come straight out and ask/beg him to give you a damn good fucking... Get it over and done with... Simples.

[jazzy34]

Wow. You’re rude. I don’t need to “get over” anything. I made it clear that is isn’t something I do. Fuck off, bitch.

[Bricealan]

@EmmaMary Well, for fuck's sake EmmaMary... that's the most straight forward fucking advice, I've ever heard you give 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️😂😂😂😂😂😂😁 You go girl ! LOL

[JordansGate]

We say "wanna shift?" And that pretty much seals the deal. 😉

[jazzy34]

LOL okay. I’ll try that. Thanks. 😊

[dudeinohio]

Guys don't mind a forward woman... at least I don't. But, that's not your personality, so... take your flirting to a higher level. Seek him out where it's obvious you made some effort to be around him.

[slatyb]

Invite him to dinner at your place. Most people know what that means.

[bowenw]

Keep talking to him so you get to know each other better. That should be enough for most guys become interested or not.

[jahaims]

So you want to be a slut without feeling like a slut so you are doing mental gymnastics to cope with being a slut.

[Josef_89]

AnlamakWhat I don't understand is why you want to have sex with an older person when you have someone younger

[CubaPirate]

I suggest you go old school and just ask him to go for a drink with you

[CubaPirate]

Doesn't have to be alcoholic maybe just a casual coffee date and take things from there if he accepts. Taking things slowly can help you seal the deal. I know that would work for me if I was in his shoes 😊

[Jennz6]

Do it

[wkhan_87]

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