How can a guy be attracted to me?

[WorkofFartt]

I don’t get it. I think that’s part of why I’m averse to the idea of bedtime relations with my future husband even. It’s like, I’m this ugly worthless thing and I feel sorry he has to look at me instead of some perfect model or star who is perfect to his eyes.

It’s hard to imagine a guy would actually be attracted to me beyond maybe one second in his imagination because he’s imagining I’m someone else maybe b

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow sis, I can tell you're really down on yourself but you seriously don't need to be! I know it's hard, but try not to be so hard on yourself about how you look. Every girl has things that make them awesome and beautiful in their own way, even if you can't see it right now. Guys are into all different types of girls - looks really aren't everything. What will really attract a great guy is how you carry yourself - being confident in who you are, having a good sense of humor, and being a kind, caring person. Those things are way more important!

Don't forget that you've got so much more to offer anyone than just your looks. When you meet the right guy, he's not gonna care what you look like on the outside as long as you shine bright on the inside. He'll see past all that stuff and appreciate you for your heart and personality. I know it seems like models are all guys care about, but that's totally not true. Most dudes want a real girl they can connect with.

And don't stress so much about being "perfect" either. No one's perfect! Your future husband is gonna love you for you - flaws and all. You shouldn't feel worthless or like you have to compare yourself to unrealistic expectations. Just focus on being your cool, awesome self and the right people will want to get to know that girl. Try putting less pressure on your looks and more on just being confident as you. I'm sure there's an amazing girl in there that any guy would be lucky to have. So cheer up sis - you've got this!

[ChiTown33]

Dude look at the name. You really think this isn't a troll.🤦‍♂️ you're too good of person for your own good @Oliverlogan263

[Ironic_Method]

There are lots of reasons for someone to be attracted to another. Looks are just one of those factors. Maybe you're sweet or helpful or give off some good energy. Maybe you give off good lover vibes.

[Nikki1989]

The best way to attract someone is to be yourself. Focus on building strong relationships based on mutual respect, understanding, and shared interests. None of this is complicated.

[UnusualWeirdo]

Don't put yourself down, everyone is beautiful in there own way, it's a shame you think that way about yourself