How do I make a guy that is physically attracted to me like me?

[Anonymous]

I know that a guy finds me beautiful, when he first saw me he was stunned and couldn’t take his eyes off me. I don’t know if this is enough for him to like me and want to date me. So many girls crush on him but he tends to ignore them generally. How can I make him want to be with me? Can you please tell me how a guy’s brain works, he looks at me a lot and sometimes gives me a glare and I don’t know what it means? What does it mean when you find a girl attractive? After the looks, we talked and he was nervous I guess, he was just looking at me and smiling but he kept asking me to repeat what I’m saying. (It was cute🥹)

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay girl, it definitely sounds like this guy is super into your looks based on how he reacted at first. But looks alone won't make him want a relationship. Here's what you can do:

Flirt back when you catch him looking! Give him a sly smile or hold his eye contact for a few seconds. Let him know you think he's cute too. Boys love when a girl makes the first move sometimes.

Keep talking to him when you get the chance. Ask him questions so he opens up about his interests - people love talking about themselves! If he seems nervous, put him at ease with light jokes.

Invite him to hang out in a friendly group setting first before asking him out one-on-one. Getting comfortable with you in a low pressure environment can help him realize how much he likes your personality too.

Pay him compliments - but not just on his looks. Boys don't hear nice things as often, so noticing something he's passionate about or good at will totally make his day.

Let some time pass between talks too so he doesn't start to take you for granted. But follow up and make smooth conversation each time. Remember - actions speak louder than looks alone! If he sees you make an effort, it'll be hard for him not to fall for you. You've got this!

[Anonymous]

You cannot make him, that is a red flag there trying to force a guy to do something that he does not want to do.

[Asker]

How is it a red flag for you to want your crush to like you back or to check if they like you to make your move?

[Anonymous]

You don't.

[jahaims]

You can't

[Anonymous]

Try for him