How to make a guy more attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

As the title says. I am quite boring and I don't know what traits will guys like to make me a bit more attractive (I will try to not be boring, but it will take time). Also, do guys prefer cute or sexy or elegant (so more mature)?

[coldmarch]

The large majority of my friends were (and are) always male and they all complain always about the same things about girls, which usually are: girls not being able to confront them but rather adapt to them when the relationship settles, and they're pissed of this "lack of character"; girls not having strong passions or ambitions, being empty and making the guy their only "passion" (which feels suffocating); girls being too pushy and doing pressure about getting imediately together, living together etc; girls being suffocating about replying to messages imediately, jealous or investigative for no reason; girls being too empty of contents to not make any conversation worth continuing, but expecting the guys to lead it (who will back off) or even worse ranting at them for ghosting or replying superficially; girls getting offended for random things then loving then hating then being all over the place and so making the guy lose his empathy and interest; girls being really bad at communication, using victimism or mysterious silences to extract attention/apologies and making it worse until it breaks; girls never wanting to hang out but always to stay home doing nothing adventurous (movies etc) and being empty/cold with the guy's friends; sexually, girls not taking any initiative but expecting the guy to lead everything; sexually, girls being full of taboos and complete lack of creativity; girls being snakes continuously criticizing everyone else especially their ex and the guy gets pissed off of all this bs he is supposed to "endorse"; girls not having a job and so not making the co-living possible, or anyway risky; girls having an ultraconservative family (well the girl can't do much about this).
I think that's all, personality-wise.
Aesthetically, I think if you get basic cosmetic practices like shaving your legs, moustaches, trimming eyebrows, having tidy hair and using some dark makeup to intensify the eyes, and match it with smiles and an outfit that says:"personality", you're already all set. If you don't smile and express depression, no matter how sexy you are but you'll probably never get anyone except some desperate men looking for a hole. Cute look can work also for older guys and elegant/mature can work for younger guys too, it depends on the guy and on the type of personality you express. It's much better to dress in a way that reflects the best sides of you and your social role because it will be harmonious with the rest of your individuality.
As much you point on personality, as much you'll get more interesting guys but that will make your relation unpredictable and full of news; as much you point on your look, as much you'll get more shallow guys but that will provide a more predictable and "safe" type of relation. It depends on what you want to be recognized for, and the fantasies you have regarding a relationship and your role in it.

[weeee]

Dont drastically change yourself to be "attractive" because in the end, the person they are going to be dating is you. You can't keep up that facade of pretending to be something you're not for long.

Anyways, more generally the girls that im drawn to are usually the ones who are honest, have a sense of humour, are passionate about something in life, have some sort of talent or skilled at something, not afraid to disagree, etc. Obviously stuff like loyalty and trust and whatever preceeds all of this.

Bottom line is, being interesting/unique personality wise.

"Also, do guys prefer cute or sexy or elegant (so more mature)?"

all guys have preferences, though mostly its a mix of everything. You can't chose to be JUST one of those things now can you?

[Vikkrram]

It's all depends on the age of guy, if an guy is in his teen age, then he would prefer a girl who is cure , funny kinda but after growing age guy prefers kinda mature, loving, caring, . But you know you can be attracted by anyone. Which traits of them u like about them and boom you found urself that i am attracted towards them.

[johnsmithjs]

Honestly, find someone that likes you for who you are. There is nothing worse then getting into a relationship with someone to later find out that they were acting the entire time. Every single LTR that I ended was because she finally showed her true colors. There is a reason that Hollyweird types only last a few years in a relationship.

[Nik1hil]

3 things..

1) make your man feel manly when talking to him or interacting with him.

2) make food for him or order food and keep him fed..
3) drain his balls twice a day... so he doesn't goes after other girls

That's all it takes..

[Avicenna]

The best thing you can do us just be friendly to him