How do you attract a man?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know girls who do it by showing how submissive and soft mannered they are but I think that is too shallow and superficial.

[sawno]

At your age the best bet is probably dating sites. Any man would assume your already taken.

[Echosoul]

This

[Wise4myage]

A good sense of humor sure helps.

[SweedyPie]

Being myself attracts people to me. Meh. Lol. Being open, lighthearted, caring, bustin corny jokes, having a good listening ear, being kind, smiling lots. Doesn't hurt that I take care of myself and present my personality in a good looking package. Also, something my lecturers used to tell me and quite a few people have said, they see leadership in me. So I guess being strong willed and having a mentality to help everyone do well makes you more appealing to people. In terms of people wanting to be around you. And also a strong work ethic, I've gotten that complement as well. So focus on being you and then those who gravitate towards that type of personality will come along

[ChiTown33]

You're right! Those women MAY attract a guy (albeit just temporarily) manipulating someone NEVER works longterm.
In order to attract a guy it's as simple as being a decent human being, and showing GENUINE interest in him, showing GENUINE connection to his life passions. I say be genuine, because you can't fake your way to success here. If you try, he WILL eventually see through it.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

I just basically stand there and look pretty. If I find them attractive and they want to come over I look over for like 5 seconds max. Majority of the time i dont have to do that and they just walk over. If they do score my number they will just have to continue trying earning my undivided attention. Its not like I practiced or planned anything like this, its just my personality (just my natural flow) and they like it.

[DhavanT]

You know try approaching guys would not hurt.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Okay thats good for you and if you would like to do that go ahead however, I am not.

[Felinegirl]

Be nice and fun usually does the trick. It's like trying to become friends with someone but with a bit of sexual attraction running along it. When in doubt, just stick to the 'building a friendship' part. The sexual tension will come automatically if you guys click.

[Subarugirl]

By being yourself, like attracts like.. birds of a feather and all that. At the end of the day though some people just aren't enjoyable to be around, and qualities like prejudice, hypocrisy, an air of superiority, and inflated sense of self worth will push any decent person away.

[Anonymous]

What attracts them is our happiness. Go out and have fun. Be in touch with your body. Do things that give you pleasure: hot bath, walk in the nature, dance, wear soft materials etc. Don’t think about it, get out of your mind and stay in your body. Move very slowly as you do things everywhere you go.

[Sixgunsound]

This is very insightful. At least for me, attraction begins with a happy person who is secure and comfortable with herself, has great feminine energy, bubbly, fun to be around, builds instead of destroys the people around her, and compliments instead of competes with. Men in general don’t like to compete with women; it’s not an ego thing it’s more that we are supposed to fit together mentally and physically, not repel each other or struggle for dominance. Masculine energy, such as needing to struggle for supremacy or compete for who has the most resources or always needing to win everything every time are not likely to be attractive to straight men because they already have that like charges repel. Women who try to be a better man than actual men aren’t desirable to most men, which is part of where western feminists struggle. Gay men want a better man, straight men do not. The anon who posted this answer to your question understands men better than the average woman. Fun does not have to be sexual, in fact if you want a man that will stick around you need to get them addicted to you specifically not just a part that the next girl also has that he doesn’t need you specifically to get access to.

[Jamie05rhs]

You have to show interest in him as a person. Unless he knows that you care about him personally, you could have all of the greatest qualities in the world but it would make no difference because all of that would be completely meaningless.

[BraveRiver]

Depends on your expectations in a relationship, determine what you want/need/deserve and reverse engineer…

It’s not a mistake that materialistic Barbie’s are also usually cold bitches that associate things for attention. Some guys will pay for it to have the trophy.

Probably not the healthiest but the reality is it’s all transactional you bring X and the other is willing to contribute Y and it works when everyone agrees the contributions are fair.

[HighlyVolatile]

Move into them both physically and emotionally. At least that's the way that worked for me without putting on some act. Burst some bubbles, explore boundaries, but don't cross them of course (don't make the person uncomfortable).

[DhavanT]

I think show an effort that you are interested in him. Try talk to him. Smile, make jokes , laugh on his jokes, touch him on his hands or shoulders causually , make fun of him that makes him laugh. Just basically put effort. Guys love being approached. This works most of the time but it might not work everytime so if you feel like you are left cold , find someone else., Move on. & Attraction happen instantly for guys , you just have to make a opning for them to allow them to express it.

[elizamichale1]

well be a little flirty n tease them a little n they are urs hehe

[DhavanT]

How come I find this so true...

[elizamichale1]

@DhavanT lol coz it is true

[operationmakeover]

Attraction. is a complex process that involves a cooperation of two energy coming. togetjer as one and making sacrafices.

[DWornock]

It is 90% looks and maybe 10% personality and social status. You will attract any man you want, if you look like this girl:

[Static_In_The_Attic]

The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach as they say.

[FunkyMonkee]

I just swish right up to him and say, "Hello, sailor!".

[Better_off_here]

i think each woman is far different some may do it by what i think is the best funny and down to earth and be themselves, and funny too is what i want.

[Twalli]

The best way is to be yourself and find out all the things you need and not deny guys if they aren't what you prefer, but don't need.

[melisaaa]

I speak humoristic and sweet to him and i also physically attract him

[Ihatethewill]

Men love a woman who goes out their way to speak and laugh with them

[dolemite89]

are you asking how to attract a man or how to keep a man cuz they’re different

[xXDayneXx]

A good smile and being there for him are good ones but for me it's the trust that makes it worth the wait

[LeftHappy]

Stop going out with your girlfriend or mom is a good start, guys will talk to girls when they're alone!

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

If I knew this, I wouldn't have fallen in platonic love. I couldn't open up to someone I like

[Agagagagaga]

Why not? Life is too short. You’ve got to go for it.

[DhavanT]

Guys love being approached. If a guy find that you put effort for him 9/10 times he will like it.

[Anonymous]

I talk to them enthusiastically as i look into their eyes and then slowly to their lips

[moviedude714]

Interesting question

[Echosoul]

Say hello, basically

[Jltakk]

Exist.