Search Results: talking about the way she dresses

Is it a good looking guy wearing tight pants?
Is it a guy with wavy hair the color you like best?
Is it his eyes that send quivers down your spine?
Is it just his personality that turns you on the most?
His height, his abs, his smile, tattoos, body piercings... what is it that makes you say... OMG! IS THAT GUY HOT OR WHAT?

Also, what do you do about it, if anything? Do you approach him in some way?

I was in a car full of girls, with one of my sisters and 3 of our friends and we drove next to another car with a couple of hot guys in it. We rolled down our windows and gave some cat calls. Saying things like "OMG" and "WOW, where are the girls that let you hunks escape?"

... Ok, I know, but they weren't a bit bothered by it I promise you. In fact we had to take a side street quickly to keep them from following us! ... l'm not kidding... lol. It was just one of those fun, crazy things to do at the spur of the moment... lol

Like maybe in another scenario you are with a group of girlfriends and you see a hot looking guy who knows how to dress stylish and has a confident looking demeanor? What would you do then, just admire him? ... or would you secretly wish you had the courage to say something to him or get his attention in some way?

Does thinking and talking about hot guys effect you in a positive or a negative way?

Share your thoughts on this "hot topic" ... lol... PLEASE?

If you have time pls read and answer this too. As a teen I used to be EXTREMELY down on myself. No confidence or self esteem, name any physical attribute on my body at all and I will tell you what I thought was wrong with it. Everyone around me would scold me for criticizing myself so harshly. Now that I have FINALLY grown out of those insecurities and accept myself as I am, I feel confident, I like how I look, but I NEVER express it in any way, so the response from others has been very strange. In my new workplace of about 50ppl I hear comments from guys talking to eachother, things like ''oh she thinks she's so sexy...'', ''she thinks all the guys are inlove with her...'', ''she thinks she is hotter than other girls...'' nothing close to what I actually think lol, I feel like I just recently grew out of years of self hate and learned how to love myself, but I don't love myself THAT MUCH. And the thing is this is not the first time, last place I worked I heard similar comments. I've been trying hard to understand how am I sending this vibe? I dress very casually, not revealing, I hardly ever wear makeup, I don't talk about my own or other appearances at all, I am not stuck up, nice to everyone, the only thing I can think of is I am a bit shy and quiet so perhaps they think I'm stuck up. So what could it be? How could they possibly come to conclusions like this?