Search Results: bothers me that my friends are dating

I was introduced to someone (they) that either has low self of esteem or is a narc. I believe the mutual friend knew this somehow because it slipped that they liked and wanted to be with the mutual first!! I was never interested in getting with anyone but the mutual would not stop hyping me up about potentially finding a partner before an event where they'd be there. They were very needy/touchy with me from the jump I feel for it, thought I'd take them under my wing but dating and gifts and ily's were pushed on me way to fast. Before that though the mutual, they, and I would be hanging out and the mutual would push they to get my number. Meanwhile there were times where the mutual would get annoyed that they would be texting too much and would tell me to tell they not to text or they'd be blocked. Either way I knew they still liked the mutual and the mutual would flirt back knowing we were 'dating'. Like make up your mind do you hate them or want to be with him. They and the mutual have hung out together while we were dating but certain events would slip out that seemed minor but they reacted as if they weren't supposed to say anything and would change the subject. Meanwhile the mutual would not text me to ask about they as much as other relationships, say what happened when hanging out, and wouldn't seem surprised or would seem dismissive over anything I brought up about they in person saying "they did that to me too". Either way I believe that they was bothering the mutual so much that the bone was throne to me so she could be left alone but once she saw the outward things they'd do for me the mutual became jealous or changed mind about throwing the bone and knows that the bone can easily be taken back because they like the mutual first. Both they and the mutual are gone from my life because I don't trust them. I just want to know if that sound right or similar to anybody

Me and my boyfriend were watching the circle, I commented on how I liked the girl's glasses to which he replied she looks like you but she's prettier. I was confused and shocked as I didn't comment on the girl's physical appearance, so I replied with "why would you say that?" He then said "what's wrong? it's just an observation" to which I replied : "I didn't ask for a comparison though I was complementing her glasses" he then was confused as to why I was bothered by the comment, and processed to tell me that if I told him someone was more handsome than he is, he wouldn't be upset and was like I don't know why you girls are so dramatic. To which I said any girl would be upset if her boyfriend out of the blue compared her to a girl and said they look similar but that she's not as pretty. Then he tried to cheer me up as he saw I was sad. I know there is a lot of people prettier than me, all of us have someone prettier than us, but I feel like he didn't have the need to say it out loud he could have kept it to himself, especially since he knows I'm insecure with my looks around him, we were friends before dating and he rated me a 6/10, once after having sex he said my boobs are a bit saggy and that I can workout to perk them up ( also without me asking and I never thought my boobs were saggy). Also I'm not his usual type as I know what kind of girls he likes. I've talked with him about all of this and he always reassures me that he finds me beautiful and cute which is hard to believe after hearing all his little comments about my looks and yesterday was the cherry.
Was I overreacting by being upset at his 'observation' ? Or were my feelings validated?