Should I give up on my friends with benefits? He's joining the military?

[Anonymous]

He is leaving for basic training in the army in like three days and since I said bye a few days ago, he has been texting me less and less, even though he said he would stay in contact and make plans to see me when he can. We got really close and were basically dating without the label because he would be leaving in a couple of months. Now I feel like I'm bothering him and he doesn't want to talk anymore, since he used to talk to me all day and now he only answers once a day. I want to call him before he goes but now I am not sure what to do.

[Dinklex3]

He's leaving for basic. Of course he's busy and is going to reply less.
& Yes I would. So many people cheat and just grow apart while in basic and tech school.

[RubyonRails]

He should be busy 12 hours out of the day with BT. After that he is tired.

[Wise4myage]

Wise move on your part, you can always find a replacement and you wouldn’t be seeing him much longer anyway.

[LZPanzer]

Would you abandon a normal friend if they went in the military?

[Avicenna]

He’s got a lot to do right now, so you should just say bye

[Iron_Man]

Those things never work out it’s just all sex related no emotion no caring or anything

[Browneye57]

You've been duped.