Guys, what would you do if you were in my (sort of) romantic situation?

[TomGarand]

I say sort of, because the person I'm talking about and I are not in a relationship, but it looks like we might be.

The person I'm talking about is my friend Coyote's little sister "Wolf." That's the nickname I'm giving them because Wolf calls me "Puppy." Why? For one, she's dominant. In and out of the bedroom.

Although the nickname I gave her is even more appropriate, because she is physically superior to me. She's 4 and a half inches taller than me. Also, she was trained to fight by her mom, both boxing and knife fighting, while I have no skill in martial arts and VERY little fighting experience.

And finally, she's stronger than me. I don't exercise that much or have to do much heavy lifting when helping my family. By comparison, Wolf works at a Dollar General and restocks the shelves, and does WAY more heavy lifting helping her family and works out. She was already stronger than me to begin with--her being taller helped--but now the gap is wider because she gained more muscle in the past few months. Coyote told me himself.

Basically, Wolf took the male role from me. If we actually do start dating, she'd have to protect ME and not the other way around. I actually like that she's bigger, stronger, and a better fighter--and she does too! So this does not bother me AT ALL.

So I'm asking the men--what would you do in my situation? What if you were dating a woman who was taller (by 4+ inches), stronger, and a better fighter than you?

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@Mofunfour20

I actually told YOU about my situation regarding my friend and her sister. I wanna know what you'd do in my shoes. She knows she's the bigger and stronger one of us two, and knowing that boosts her ego. I make her feel like an amazon.

[snackthatsmilesback]

I'd have to get serious again I guess.

I love a good fighter but I'm in good enough shape rn I am stronger than women generally, and I don't have to do much anymore to keep it up just normal workouts and diet. My girlfriend is less than an inch taller and puts a fair amount more work in than I do, but I still have the edge in strength between us.

She can beat me in a fight if she tries because I'm not very agile, she has the edge in that. If she gained 4 inches + the weight and a lot of fight training, then I may step up my game again to catch up. I suggest you step your game up as well, if you want something closer to a fair fight. If you're cool with it then there's no problem, but personally I like to be close to even with my partner.

[Anonymous]

It would be fine
Losing on height is quite possible for me at 5' 3"
Strength is also possible as I can't do much
Fighting okay she's trained to follow the rules and maybe knock a sucker out
I have a set of skills in regards to fighting that I haven't had to utilize but if I ever had to then I'd be looking at many years of incarceration given it's brutal moves designed to kill or be worse than being killed

[Mofunfour20]

Start disagreeing with her to assert your dominance. If it sounds dumb, tell her and say why. Start smacking her ass hard and tell her "you know what that was for". The point is that you need to stop being her solution and start becoming her problem. Be unapologetic and if she likes you she will stay, if not... Her leaving does you a favor. Stop trusting what she says and ask qualifier questions. Ignore 90% of what she says and listen and watch 100% percent of her actions. If she doesn't respect your boundaries and authority give her consequences.

[TomGarand]

I never said she was like a lot of feminist women nowadays. In fact, she treats me pretty damn well. Honestly, the worst thing she does is playfully tease me and her older brother. My question basically runs along the lines of,

"What would you do if your girl or girl-to be was much taller (by at least 4 inches), stronger, and a better fighter than you?" THAT'S what I meant to ask.

And again, in my situation, she's not bothered by it at all. She LIKES the fact that she's more dangerous than me.

[Mofunfour20]

I would question her respect for me because she isn't like most women that prefer a man that makes them feel small. She is a unicorn of women so maybe advice from guys smaller than their girl would be better for you

[TomGarand]

So you'd think she doesn't respect you because she's larger and doesn't follow your lead?

[Mofunfour20]

Yeah, every woman I've been around responds well to leadership. They dont like having to decide whats best, i tell them

[TomGarand]

Then I guess I lucked out.

[Mofunfour20]

Luck? Sounds like preference. Most guys prefer women smaller than them and compliant with their leadership. From my experience, letting a woman lead doesn't usually end well

[Anonymous]

It’s not about good or bad. It’s pretty obvious that she’s got you tight by the balls. Do you like that? Do you accept her dominance?

Then it’s nothing wrong. Just go for it😊

[TomGarand]

You know for a fact I like it, dude!

[Opinion Owner]

She does boxing and stuff? You ever fought her?

[TomGarand]

No, we live in two different states. But her mom taught her a stance and how to throw punches. According to Coyote (her big brother and my friend), their mom called it "Irish Boxing." Ironic, considering they are Irish-American.

[Opinion Owner]

What if she fights you? She’ll totally own you

[TomGarand]

I made that clear in my question. I would definitely lose.

[Opinion Owner]

The second image shows lol. She’s definitely got you by the balls. How did you even find a girl like that?

[Opinion Owner]

*third

[TomGarand]

Well, I just met Coyote on an art website, and then Wolf had to take over his account for a while due to a foot injury he had.

Then when I found Coyote again on Discord, I asked about Wolf, and he said she knows about me because he tells his family about his social life online. That's how I found out she calls me "Puppy" because she thinks my submissiveness and shortness is cute--he told me that she said that.

So we started talking more and more to each other through him.

[Opinion Owner]

Those pictures were uploaded by her on the art website right? She’s supposed to be busting you balls lol

[TomGarand]

None of them were from her. And no, she doesn't do ball busting.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah right

[Anonymous]

If you're ok with it, and so is she, there's no problem. It probably wouldn't bother me either as long as she wasn't aggressive towards me (in a way I didn't like).

[Anonymous]

You're lucky, I like dominant, sporty, athletic type of girls.

[Nachowedgie]

Wouldn't interest me in the slightest

[TomGarand]

Meaning you wouldn't be in that situation to begin with, or that her being physically superior would not bother you?

[Nachowedgie]

Wouldn't be in that situation to begin with

[TomGarand]

You want to be the protector?

[Nachowedgie]

Preferably yeah, most guys do