Guys & girls what would you do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

Been speaking to a guy for a while. We have long phone calls & text everyday. Had two dates so far. I randomly get no caller id phone calls several times during a random Thursday.

A girl speaks saying she needs to talk to me about a guy I’m speaking to. She says she has been sleeping with him & she was wondering what’s going on.

I explain to her that I’ve not known him long & I’m just shocked. She says they’re both not in a relationship & just been sleeping together on & off past year.

I ring him straight after and he responds ‘ ah just block no caller id’s and how’s that my fault, would you believe if she told you she has a 10 inch cock aswell’

Anyway day after I say to him I don’t have a problem with the girl I just don’t understand how she could have got my number as you’ve not known me long & she’s obviously gone through your phone.

He explains that she’s a psycho & follows him in her car & probably went through his phone as he recently met her to give her things to her. He said she left a long time ago.

I said I don’t have a problem with the girl, I’m just asking how she could have got my number. Her story is different because she said she met him recently and they slept together.

I have broken it off with him I’m not sure if I made the right decision. However I was more annoyed about the fact he keeps lying.

[Flower7]

You definitely made the right decision by breaking up with him. He is for sure in the wrong here.

Something similar happened to me where I started dating a guy and one day a girl suddenly contacted me saying they were in a relationship. The guy had told me that this girl is his ex and that's she's crazy and stalkerish.

[Asker]

Thank you, I’m sorry to hear that you went through that it’s heartbreaking and unfair. Also good at the same time as you didn’t continue to waste time with that person.

the only thing with this situation is that they have both confirmed they were just seeing each other here and there and weren’t in a relationship.

Do you still think I made the right decision?

[Flower7]

Yeah, you don't want a guy who sleeps around. And do you really think he'll suddenly drop her if you two end up being a couple? After a year? It sounds like he's been doing this with her even since before he met you.

[Asker]

Yeah I understand, and I’m not sure I wouldn’t believe anything to be honest. All I heard from her was that she told him to block her off everything.

Im just wondering, when she said to me ‘just be careful he does this to other girls too’ why would she find the need to ring me? Wouldn’t she just cut all contact off with him

[Flower7]

Believe her. This is way too sketch.