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Although transsexualism and transgenderism aren't a sexuality like homosexuality or bisexuality, it's still considered a part of the LGBT+ movement. After asking a question about gays, I wanted to ask one about trans too. First I've to tell you the definition.

Transsexual = Males to females and females to males, usually undergoes medical procedures like hormone treatment and surgeries.

Transgender = Although all transsexuals are transgender not all transgenders are transsexuals. Some trans people identify themselves as several genders, no genders (agender) or quart a gender, quart a nothing and half neutral like demi-boys and demi-girls.

PS! If you thinks transsexualism/transgenderism are a mental illness, you may vote the "no" or "other" button to get a more accurate poll. A mental illness is something you gets or are born with. It's important to distinguish between:

A) Thinking transsexualism/transgenderism is a bad choice people takes
B) It's a mental illness you don't choose to get, but should be treated differently
C) It's a mental illness, but should be treated with hormones and surgeries

#Transsexual #Transgender #Lgbt

So, I've been talking to this girl for about 2 months. Everything is great and we kissed and already slept together. We are not dating yet tho because we both still have our guards up. Anyways, she still speaks to her ex whom she had an 8 year relationship with. She is 21 and he was her first love and first lover. He cheated on her and she left him but they still talk and they have done favors for each other. This does not sit well with me and I told her this twice and she said the first time she'll stop and she told him. He kept calling and needed an emergency favor and she did it. I told her she has to choose between us and she said she has to think about it. She needs time to move on.
Should I be patient and understanding or just move on? I don't know, I like her and she's unique but this really doesn't sit well with me.