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Forgiveness is one of the most powerful of things. But it is oh so not easy to come to grips with. Where does one draw the strength from to forgive? How does it feel to forgive, or not to forgive?

People can hurt each other easily, for selfish reasons and their own wounds. Like:
MotherF@#er raped you in college, and you lost 15 years of your life.
Your boss totally F'd you... on purpose (they do that)! You lose... job, retirement, house, maybe family.
The guy/girl you loved... they hurt you terribly, totally F'd your life! F'in hell man!
The Govt official screwed you bad and laughed about it on the news, and you lost your business! You went bankrupt!
In essence, these are all corruptions of power, selfishness, and lack of love! Ok!!!

Oh but that Universe... by twist of fate years later, you have power over their offspring! OOOOO
Maybe you are the Sargent in the Army commanding them, and you have to pick someone for the dangerous front position? Tempting..
Or you are the boss, and you can make this subordinate suffer! No consequences, at least earlth
Or you see them in a dangerous place... like trapped in a car on side of the road, ready to catch fire. They are gonna die, unless you interject to help call for help... else they die! Nobody would know though if you drive on...

Dig deep... how do you respond? You're options:

A) F! ck em over, that's life bi#ch! (Explain how this would feel). Is there a better way?
B) Ignore your feelings.
C) Forgive: Engage with them, explain what happened that they deeply hurt you, and that you will treat them the same as anyone else. Explain how you'd feel and where you get the strength.
D) Other

I started talking with this really nice girl back in October, and we seemingly clicked pretty well. We both recently got out of long term relationships where our ex really hurt us, but it seemed like a good match.
She was two hours away for school, but we still talked everyday. She expressed interest in dating and spending most of her winter break together, and if all went well, I'd meet her parents at the end of the break.
But on our first real date, she said she thought she was ready to date again, and asked for more time, and she was very apologetic, but we still had a few hard conversations about the situation because I was super bummed and upset.
Anyway, we've only talked a handful of times since and she said before Valentine's day she still wasn't ready, but I still wished her a happy Valentine's day and said I hoped all was well and I understand she's not ready, and I wanted to make sure she was doing ok.
The other day, she got a bunch of snow, and I was just trying to be friendly and talk to her about it since she loves it. But she still didn't say much, and I've delayed answering because the way she's responded lately has made me just more annoyed with the situation. But she still responds, although she doesn't make the conversation engaging. I understand she's still hurt by her ex and trying to move on. She said she just never got the closure she wanted.
At this point do I just give up? I haven't even read or seen her last message back to me...