Search Results: ex as a friend

Why is my ex friend blaming me for sending out her nudes and not her ex boyfriend she's been messing with online?

So I had a friend I helped out a lot who turned on me yet agin after getting a new boyfriend. She has come back every year begging for help with new issues she created for herself. With the worse issues being 1. Raped by...

ghost1223

Xper 1 Age: 24

Is my female friend (F20) trying to find out about my (M21) ex?

There’s a girl who I’m pretty sure has a massive crush on me that’s close to a female friend of mine. When out drinking with a bigger group, me and my friend started talking about our exes. She revealed a lot about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My bf’s ex is obsessed with him and me?

his ex is still obsessed with my boyfriend after almost 1 year of no contact. they blocked each other and everything, yet she always finds ways to get in contact with him. she posts tiktoks about him, saying stuff like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I overthinking this?

I went to a Halloween party last night and my ex was there it wasn't awkward or anything. He's more of an old friend than an ex boyfriend really. Well we were drinking and just doing party things and having fun. We both...

BabyOranges

Xper 3 Age: 24

Relationships

How do I mourn the person he used to be?

Firstly please be kind when responding to this, I am very sensitive right now and don't need any hateful or rude comments. How do I move on from and mourn the loss of the person my ex boyfriend use to be? When I met him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why are guys so complicated?

Im a black girl and I've been friends with this Asian guy for 7 years and, sometimes he would give me signs that he liked me, gifts, he'd cook for me, he tell me things about himself that he hasn't told anyone else. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What chances do you give to people who reconcile after a breakup? I feel really bad about the situation that I am describing?

It's really hard for me to get over the fact that the girl I like made up with her ex. And that's only because of me. 2 years ago she broke up with her ex-boyfriend, a few months after the breakup she started liking me,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a temporary breakup?

My boyfriend (now ex) and I recently broke up, ending a year-and-a-half relationship abruptly after celebrating his birthday. We had a day full of fun, but leaving a concert that night, he took my phone to navigate and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Am I wrong for telling my buddies ex wife that she only has her self to blame for him not talking to her any more?

At the beginning of the year, my buddy Tom had his divorce finalized. It was a messy and very toxic situation on both sides. He and his ex, Brittany, divorced after he found out she had a long-term affair with one of our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I do anything wrong?

I have been speaking to a guy for a few weeks and I noticed that he follows my ex ‘situationship’ but did not think much of it because I know men associate with each other through gym etc without being too friendly and we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

In an awkward position?

Straight too the point.. I have recently lost my mum, we are talking 3weeks ago now and there's talk of some kind of inheritance? my ex ( kids mum) we split up over 6years has been an absolute rock and been there too help...

jamster3030

Xper 4 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Ex asking if im in town. Is it a booty call?

Ex keeps texting me then and there and then ghost. One day he called. I didn't have his number. I didn't pick but made a call back few days later and asked 'I got a missed call. Who is that' to which he replied wrong...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can someone help me make sense of my ex's behaviour?

My ex and I separated 9 months ago, I ended the relationship after 18 months, when he kept pressuring me to move in and I was not ready. When I kept explaining I needed time, towards the end he became quite dismissive of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My ex is acting crazy and I have no clue what her behavior means, can anyone help me?

Long story short: I met a girl at the gym and dated for a while. It ended two years ago, but we had ups & downs over the next few years as I was rising in the film and TV industry. A year ago, we stopped talking & I...

Kools654

Xper 4 Age: 34

Is my friend being love bombed? How can I help/advise her? I dont want to influence her decisions but i’m getting so many red flags?

So my friend recently told me that she had a brief fling for a few months with this guy, and she ended up getting pregnant and deciding not to keep the baby as she didn’t want anything serious as she was going back to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to have a healthy friendship with avoidant attachment?

As she is my ex, I still have feelings, but she doesn’t, so how do I go about just being friends for her sake

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will anything happen to my ex girlfriend who lied to a judge in order to get a protective order on me?

So I dated a close friend of mine back in 2012, which didn't end will since she was a cheater and would use her mental conditions as an excuse for her behavior very long story. Anyway, for the past 5 years, she's been...

Anonymous

(30-35)