Will anything happen to my ex girlfriend who lied to a judge in order to get a protective order on me?

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So I dated a close friend of mine back in 2012, which didn't end will since she was a cheater and would use her mental conditions as an excuse for her behavior very long story. Anyway, for the past 5 years, she's been reaching out to me asking for help with many different things like I dumb ass i kept helping her. She would then randomly turn around Block me and threatening to have me locked up for zero reason if I message her on social media. I finally had enough of this told here never to message me agin so when she did 3 months ago after begging a friend for My new insta name, I told her to fuck off. Last week, I had police at my doorstep saying she filed for a temporary order on me, and I gotta come to court to tell my side of things.

What did she lie to the judge about?

1. She told the judge I had been harassing her since 2012, which isn't true. I helped her file a police report a year ago at my house on an ex boyfriend who raped her and helped her out after an ex leaked her nudes 6 months ago.
2. She has not talked to me since 2012 and only reported me because she fears for her life.
She message a friend of mine saying she doesn't even believe I leaked them and hopes the judge does not find out she's been lying.

3. Told the judge I had nudes of her without her consent, which isn't true. For the past 5 years, she's been on n off randomly sending me videos or voice messages of her touching herself. I never saved any of them. I had nudes of her a year ago from an ex boyfriend of hers who she asked me to speak to after he leaked them on the internet

Turns out someone sent nudes out of her to her father. I believed it was an ex boyfriend of her that she was messing with on social media, the same one who leaked them. She's been trying to fuck up his life for dumping her a year ago. She's been texting his friends, telling them he'd a pedo and trying to get his girlfriend to dump him, which I have poof of.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Damn dude, that's really messed up what your ex is trying to pull. I can't believe after all these years she's still trying to cause problems for you when you've done nothing but help her out. Some people just can't let go of the past I guess.

It was a good idea to save all those old messages you guys had, that's solid proof that everything she told the judge was a lie. I'm sure the judge will see right through her story when you show them how you've been contacting her to offer support, not harass. Lying to a judge is no joke, she could seriously get in legal trouble for making false accusations. Especially with how long ago you two even dated.

I feel bad that all this drama is still affecting you too after so long. No one should have to deal with their ex being so crazy and vindictive. I hope once this court date happens and the judge sees she was lying, your ex will finally leave you alone. You really don't need that toxic behavior in your life. Focus on moving forward and surrounding yourself with real friends who have your back.

Maybe joining a sports team or club could help get your mind off things too. Don't let one messed up ex ruin how you see other girls. Most of them aren't like that, I'm sure you'll find someone way better once you're fully over this whole situation. Just hang in there man, try not to stress too much, and stay confident knowing the truth is on your side. Let me know how the court date goes!

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Lying under oath is a crime known as perjury but you need some solid proof to back this claim up. Nothing here sounds too solid.

Will anything happen to my ex girlfriend who lied to a judge in order to get a protective order on me?

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