I’m crushing on my lawyer AGAIN can someone give me a reality check?

[Brunettexoxo]

Basically I need harsh, tough love and it’s never gonna happen’s so I can negative the last hurdle of this process without being distracted by unrealistic ideas.

i think it’s happened again because they are the only guys I interact with other than my family that have proper stability in their life’s, know personal things about me and listen to me,

without wanting or trying to be intimate with me and they never make sexual comments they way a lot of guys do

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I'm gonna give it to you straight - you need to snap out of this crush on your lawyer, like, yesterday. I know it can be tempting to develop feelings for someone who seems stable and trustworthy, but trust me, this is never gonna happen.

Your lawyer is a professional who is there to provide you with legal services, period. Anything beyond that is completely off-limits and inappropriate. No matter how much you may think you connect with this person, they are never going to see you as anything more than a client. That's just the way it has to be.

I get that it's frustrating to only interact with guys who don't want to get intimate, but that's not a good enough reason to start crushing on your lawyer. That's just setting yourself up for heartbreak and potential legal/ethical issues down the line.

You gotta keep reminding yourself that this is a strictly professional relationship. Your lawyer is not your therapist or your friend - they're there to do a job, and that's it. Anything more than that is just your imagination running wild.

I know it sucks, but you've gotta shut down these feelings before they spiral out of control. This is never gonna happen, so you need to find a healthy way to move on. Maybe try putting yourself out there and meeting new people who aren't in positions of authority over you. Anything is better than pining after your lawyer.

You're better than this, girl. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgment. Stay focused on what's important, and don't let this crush distract you. You've got this!

[NathanDavis]

you need therapy...

[Brunettexoxo]

Why? It’s just a crush I won’t act on it

[NathanDavis]

because... this is the latest of many, unfortunate series of events... caused poor decision making and alcohol induced bad decision making

therapy might be of benefit with both

[Brunettexoxo]

I haven’t been drinking I obviously met my new attorney completely sober

[NathanDavis]

the fact that you need that many attorneys... what for? exactly

[eagle1951]

if you don't know better they should.