Is my lawyer flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

Three months ago, I hired a lawyer for my partner’s case in court and he was great.. we have achieved an amazing outcome
He has great communication skills as he always checks up on us

Then few weeks ago, my brother needed a lawyer for his case so I told him to hire my lawyer
And my brother was also happy with his results

So my lawyer messaged me saying thank you for referring him to my brother etc

Then I think.. he started to flirt with me

Do you guys think he's flirting with me?

He knows I have a partner and a baby lol

Yes he's flirting and wants you

Yes he's flirting but doesn't mean he wants you

No he's not flirting

[pickles77]

It sounds like he is looking for someone that’s like you. Has similar qualities But I think he under your not available. Hence the interest in you having a sister or your community. He probably just wants a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Of course it's flirting

Glad to see Indian women are not hated around the world like Indian men

[Asker]

But he knows I have a partner and a baby lol

[Opinion Owner]

Omg really? I thought it was about your divorce case or something , sorry... That's weird of him to do that though lol
But I am quite sure he won't probably take it any further if you don't give back any signs

[Asker]

Yeah I didn't give any signs
But he was flirty right? Does that mean he wants me?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it was and to be honest yes it means that :)
But he won't ruin his career or take risks unless you flirt back I guess

[Flatmanlewis]

Seems more very friendly than flirty. I take the sister comment as hoping you may have some prospects for him more than shooting his shot at you. That’s just me though.


I think it’s also a fact that if a woman replies “Aw” to anything you text her it’s the equivalent of saying “Such a nice thing to say but don’t forget you have no chance with me so just don’t get carried away because I don’t want to have to cut you off.”

[Asker]

But then why would he say “are they like you?”
What does that even mean lol

[Flatmanlewis]

It’s hard to say but he may just be trying to get a feel if your friends have a similar personality or look as you do. I mean, only he knows. I wouldn’t think too much into it.