Is it possible that my ex cancel the restraining order?

I have a ex-boyfriend and we were first each other
to be boyfriends and girlfriends and we’ve been on and off and on for three years. He’ll dump me and when he gets horny, He’ll always come back. And lately after I gave him what he wants he’ll start ignoring me and I’ll get really mad and call bomb him. And at my previous job I used to work with my ex-boyfriend’s best female friend and they will call each other brothers and sisters. she will tell my ex-boyfriend a lot to get a restraining order against me even though she has a boyfriend.
So one day when I saw my ex-boyfriend’s car and a coffee shop parking lot. I thought I can go talk to him, but he will keep ignoring me and avoid me and his friends thought it was funny. They call the cops. And at the same time, his female best friend shows up to. The cops recommend to get a restraining order against me to my ex. in the next day, I got a restraining order for 20 days. and 20 days later after the hearing it went through as one year because it’s not good to call bomb him.
I do not want to sound mean but a lot of my friends and people around me even strangers told me that he won’t do better than me because he’s kinda overweight and I’m too pretty for him and stuff. Even though he’s not good looking or not nice to me he’s my first boyfriend ever and I love him..
I know it’s a long sentence, but I want to know if it’s easy for the fat guy to get girls or not and if there’s a chance if he gets lonely and horny and drop the restraining order
Is it possible that my ex cancel the restraining order?
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