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I don’t why I can’t live him even if he clearly treats me bad. He admit he is a player and jokingly say to me, you are a victim.

He ask me to pay for foods, signed up for loans, pay for tickets, medical, gasoline, cigarettes/loads. He never gave me a thing or even just a flower. He got mad if I cannot help him financially and start calling me irresponsible! Or cheap! Fucking idiot.

He fucked other people in our rented house while I am at work, just strangers he even just met online dating sites. He rejected me sex a lot of times and making me crave for it. He was mad when I sell his old things that he no longer use, he told me sell your body, not my things!

I once met his ex girlfriend and she told me you are so pathetic to be having a relationship with him. She told me he is gonna treat you bad if you are already useless. He also cheated to her and even beaten her up

until, such time I found my ex cheating on me and having another girlfriend. And he said I admit I fool you. And said, I never love anyone. If he never love anyone, how come he had so many gf’s like more than 20 in the past?

So my boyfriend and I had a funny thought about weddings.

My boyfriend and I were watching Bridezillas (he hates it, but it's my guilty pleasure), and we were already talking about our wedding. Plans are to be engaged after a year (so September), but he kept saying that it would be fun for me to plan it and pick everything, but just run it past him. Then I told him it was our wedding so he should help, and he agreed. But I told him that he didn't really see it as 'his' because he doesn't want to participate. He just wants to reserve the right to say 'no'. And I told him most guys are like that. They get pissy about the 'my wedding' attitude brides have, but most guys don't actually help plan anything. The woman does, and the man is along for the ride to say yes or no. But they don't have an opinion on anything. They want it picked out for them and presented to them so they can approve or deny it.

He sat there for a moment, laughed, and eventually admitted I was right. He doesn't really want to look at flowers or go to cake tastings or pick out silverware. He just wants to try the food and pick the venue with me, but do nothing else. But he wants to have an opinion. So basically I go out and find everything, present it to him, and he can say yes or no. He has 3 brothers, all have been married, and they were like that. My sister's husband was like that. My dad was like that. He was in 3 friend's wedding, and he said every one of his friends were like that.

Guys, why are you like this when it comes to weddings? OR are you?