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So for the longest time (over a year) I've been trying to make something work with a guy.. in the beginning i wasn't ready and kind of lead him on.. there were just a lot of issues and arguments going on but we both still wanted to make it work.. when i was in a relationship he just wish i gave him a chance etc. When my ex and I broke up i messaged him and we tried to meet up and we talked on the phone and at one point he seemed upset.. anyways a few months go by and I message him and i called him to try one last time (I don't know why) and he was short with me.. told me he was on and off with this girl. One minute he says their talking and the next their not. 3 months later i find out he's engaged.

He was the same religion as me but was from a background where i believe they do arranged marriages. The girl is the same background as him (i believe) he always told me he didn't get along with his parents

I love my guy friend platonically and somewhat romantically. We met like a year ago but he has been saying sexual stuff to me and i am celibate til marriage so the stuff while i realized it was sketchy, it didn't really sink in deep enough just what he was saying and the picture he had in his mind of being with me.

He would say stuff all the time like telling me to twerk for him and he is just a outgoing kinda gooft guy so i figured he's just saying annoying stuff or whatever to annoy me (cause i told him stop talking sexually but he never listened).

Now after such a long time of this, i watched a video of a girl twerking and i suddenly realize he was basically telling me this whole time with all the little suggestic stuff he always said to me, that he sees me as a sex object... He sees me as a girl he wants to f u c k. ... We did talk about other stuff like life goals but still he always was hitting on me sexually even though it often flew over my head cause im simple/naive/optimistic minded and ignore sexual stuff/attention from guys... This man also has told me basically that im so innocent and right after that he said that me and him have to keep in touch. I still dont know why we have to keep in touch if im innocent? So as you can see im still pretty naive and dumb