What Men Really Want in a Woman... displaying G@G community !

[natured]

I love MyTakes that actually reflect real thoughts and words from our G@G community.

The best part is that you guys are always cooperative and I appreciate it heartedly. So thank you so much for making us Women understand what you actually want from us (more or less lol), and let's hope that many of us will learn something.

So I wanted to hear everyones thoughts for a proper and Ideal partner through this very question (click me)

I gathered all of your answers and will post only mens answers on this MyTake, some really surprised me, let's start with this very answer that I found very informative and also genuine.

Oh, I will ignore the fact that some of you men want us to just "shut up" because it's nonsense, also because you have the freedom to basically live a lonely life all you want so you won't hear us talking or "bickering" so why even bother hun?

WHAT MEN WANT IN A WOMAN

Lionman95X
I want a partner crime, who I can be loyal and trustful with. I want a woman I can spend with and experience adventure (not sexually meant). I´m looking for a soulmate rather than a fuck-buddy.
A woman I can share life with and talk to.
She doesn´t need to look perfect because everybody has flaws but for me the key attribute would be that we could build an emotional bond with each other. I need someone I can connect on a deeper emotional level.
For me brain is more valuable than beauty and I don´t have a problem if she´s smarter than me as long as we don´t work in the same scientific field or fields that are opposing each other in some way.
I don´t want any kind of fetish/kink girl because I don´t know if I could handle that and I don´t want a totally submissive woman either because I need feedback from time to time concerning what I do.
So I´m not into seeing women as slaves because that´s only working in porn well.
I therefore would like to find a woman who has some kind of social life.
I´d like if we had at least one hobby in common but I´d prefer it if we had a similar view on the world and on society.
I don´t physical attributes I´d like to have for the simple reason that beauty is going after some time.
For me the impression she leaves is everything.

This sums everything tight? I personally agree with him and his requests, they are genuine and legit.

msc545
Women want attention and money.

Obviously some Men have the decency to know what US women want in a man ... Yes he might be true for some, but lucky for him, not all of us Women want money, many of us prioritize love and affection....

Alejandro3000
I don't agree on the maturity, girls don't want to be with someone boring. I've heard too often that they want a dark mysterious guy who doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks and with that comes a risky road involving the death of one of them or both or jail time lol.
You live for it and hope it comes your way

Anonymous
"At the end of the day, both men and women want a relationship where they can feel good about themselves"

BULLSHIT. At the end of the day relationships and dating are a thing of the past. Pull your head out of your ass and smell the roses!

es20490446e
What I like in my partner is just what I like in any other person, really.

Nik1hil
All men want from women is "She makes him feel masculine and manly."

All women want from Men is, "He makes her feel happy, in any way possible."

dolemite89 a cute girl that likes sex that isn’t too much of a pain in the ass, so a unicorn basically 🤣

ItsMeItsMe1989
honesty

Supernormal
Variety

RealMarek
I found what I was looking for: a woman with whom I have mutual attraction, is caring, capable of intimacy, loyal, and is not neurotic.

kingBroffe27
To be honest, I like a woman to give me good sex life and understand the man I'm that's stay with me in peacefully

Anonymous
Both want a partner. Someone they can love, desire and care for as well as feel loved, desired and cared by.
Of course there are exceptions. But yes I said exceptions.
I am sad to see the amount of bitterness guys have around here.

havingfun101
Men want sex and authority commensurate with their responsibility
Women want daughters and men's money.
Marriage, cohabitation, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces and get custody and alimony in 90% of cases.
Bang and slang; she'll steal ya kids, boys!

SUCH BS BUT OK

InfobotLives
Sex, security, companionship, company, validation, a second opinion, a source of comfort, a financial ally, a person to come home to and a person to tell their stories too.

Well, this sums up what I keep telling you people most of the time, we're all different, we all want different things, what might be the dream woman for you might be a nightmare for another guy, and it's the same for women. But let's agree to one thing, we all want honesty and trust.

I also posted the trolls and their cute answers, just to make you laugh why not, maybe some truth is hidden behind their answers as well. Let's give them a round of applouse for at least trying.

Thank you guys for your collaboration

I own each right on posting their answer and username on this MyTake, since I made it clear on my question that I will be doing so. I hope you guys are still okay with it if you missed that part.

-D-

[Lliam]

I do want someone that I find attractive by my own standards. Physical attraction is important.

Yes, I want someone who is heterosexual and revels unbridled sex. She understands her sexuality and will give blowjobs or even bend over for the occasional quicky without feeling used. Because I satisfy her at other times.

I want someone who is comfortable in her feminine skin, is well groomed, and takes pride in making herself attractive.

But I also want someone who is smart, perceptive, intuitive, open minded, competent, hard working, curious, adventurous, fun, hard working, ambitious, honest and trustworthy; who can take care of herself but likes to be treated like a lady. She isn't a door mat. She respects a man who earns her respect. She has healthy values and normal hopes and dreams but isn't too materialistic. She wants a partner who will cherish her as his one and only, and she feels the same way toward him.

I want a partner who looks up to me. It inspires me to be the man she looks up to. When she slips her little hand trustingly into mine or slips her arm through mine and presses close as we walk, I feel ten feet tall. It's an honor to be trusted and to make her feel safe and secure.

She enjoys conversation on an array of issues. She is eager to learn new things and she can teach me things, too. She wants to be able to confide in me and longs to have me confide in her.

Our values are similar. We share some common interests but support each other's pursuits, hobbies and interests even when they are not things that we are both as passionate about. For example, my wife doesn't share my interest in airplanes. We don't have the same exact taste in music or movies, but we try to appreciate them, and there are commonalities.

She believes in monogamy and loyalty. She expects the same in return. If we decide that we want to get married and spend the rest of our lives together, she will take that as a sacred promise - a vow of honor - and do everything possible to make it work.

I want someone to be equal partners in life; someone who wants us both to succeed. Our greatest goal is each other's happiness.

[natured]

That's what I'm talking about, thank you so much I hope more and more Men and Women read this.
I appreciate it :)

[Lliam]

You're welcome, natured.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say most men want a biblical type of woman - somebody with good social skills who cares about other, works hard, has a sense of modesty, is confident but does not need to show off her skills, pays attention to detail, is passionate and loyal to her man, is honest but can keep her lovers embarrassments a secret and respects the man she is with and herself and even strangers and everybody in between.

[Alejandro3000]

😏 all of those opinions are true, I've seen!!! So im glad you chose a variety, love the mytake! Real people makes quality content.
The horrible girl at work who causally said:
"I'm taking 'my" kids and 'his' house, poor Jonathon was a good loving husband and ofc he will get to see them when I don't need them on weekends."
Imagine sitting on a train and a 35yr old woman is telling her mate, "Jack is all round decent but nah, Matt there's something missing from him he's good for hookups, I like Rob I just don't know about him, I know what I want from men and I should wait until I find the right guy" Me: struggles to contain laughter 😂 35yrs old and she's being picky? CrazyAnd the mother who writes to her 6yr old daughter whilst on the train and the little girl wants to see her"You need to stop being needy and be a good girl for me"DELETES "I also wish I could see you, I miss you a lot, but mommy is doing something this weekend" doing a guy!

[Shagmaster6000]

It has been my greater experience that men and women don't do very well living together under the same roof. My last relationship was with an abusive sociopathic narcissist. She twisted every bit of information to benefit her own paradigm and couldn't see anything beyond that.

So from my point of view if I were to ever get into another relationship, (which I"m not), I would want someone who is kind, and trusting, and peaceful, patient and understanding. Someone who likes similar music, movies and tv shows as me, someone to cuddle with, hold hands with, who will relax with me. She can stay with me if she wants to, or go home where she lives at her own address. A friend more than anything really, and if sex ever becomes a thing then that would be great too.

And if she ever lost interest in me, or started showing any sort of mental instability, she has her own place to go back to and we never have to talk again. I've learned to be just fine being by myself either way. I know women like what I dream of don't really exist, it's safer just not to try.

[Supernormal]

Replicating 0n demand, it depends on the man. Men are different and have different needs from a woman and vice verca. But if you ask me, it's more of ;

Loyalty
Feasible strength
Mind of her own
Tenacity
Independence
Assimilation tenique
Selflessness
Accountability
Mental systematic development module. [MSDM]

Leave the sexuality aside, sex is cheap, but things i mentioned cannot be bought. Now i see any of it in any woman then its an attractive trait.

[natured]

I totally agree, great points, I wish you commented on my question i'd totally publish this. THank you , I appreciate it

[Supernormal]

Most welcome, I tried messaging you once about how you descibed italy. Makes me want to have a taste of living there

[natured]

I'm so bad at messaging, I never checked because i seem to be flooded with people that want to see pictures of my feet so i never checked anymore i'm so sorry. I have 2 takes maybe about italy

[Supernormal]

Since you don't check then how do we ever get to talk about my relocation to Venice. "Want to see pictures of your feet" ☺️ how Clever.

[kidvid80]

i work, cook, clean, cut lawn, laundry, do home repairs, no kids,, have my first home paid off and my own car, i dont need a guys money. just his love and loyalty- a best friend to turn into more and that has proved to be incredibly hard for me to find

[HawkPerception]

For me, I want a girl I'm physically attracted to (doesn't have to be the hottest girl... just someone I'm sexually attracted to) that has chemistry with me.

Chemistry for me is all in the similarities. I will fall for a girl that has similar interests, views, goals, sense of humor, way of communicating, etc. When I say "similar way of communicating" I don't mean the same language. I mean that ability to understand each other well... to know what they're saying before they finish what they're saying or to be able to just look at them and know what they're thinking. There's no better feeling than having someone that's on the same wavelength as you experience life with you. At the end of the day, I believe happiness comes from being able to share experiences with loved ones.

[JackSmy]

I guess you said it best: "we're all different, we all want different things," and I am finding it a HUGE JOKE, that a woman, is collecting posts, to define "What Men Really Want in a Woman," Based on a few posts!!!
LMFAO, as you are soooooooooo WRONG, and how PRETENTIOUS, can you be, assuming, as a woman, reading posts, thinking you KNOW?

[natured]

I don't think I ever said somewhere in this MyTake that I KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT, because every woman should know what her man wants.
I know what my man Wants, and my characteristics fullfilled his desires in a woman...
I am perfect for him, but I might not be perfect for someone else.
I think you should dig deeper to understand.
:)
Thank you though

[JackSmy]

@natured I wish you well, but doubt that you really KNOW as much as you think you know, about him.

[natured]

Do you know him? WOW you're a magician? I'm so happy for you. What is his favourite color? Food? Vacation trip? Music? Sex Position? Drink? Do you know his deepest secrets and desires?
Exactly you don't , I do though, we have transparent conversations because we literally grew up together so if you excuse me I will go hug my man.

[Guanfei]

I've answered this question here many times (which is why I didn't answer yours ^^")
So I'll c/p the shortest answer:

I want my other half, who can complete me. Someone caring, soft, able to take care of herself but who would still need me by her side to take care of her.

[TheSpaceGnome]

"we're all different, we all want different things"


I hate that this isn't blatantly obvious to most people. Good mytake.

[Isitweird997]

Since a lot of people. jus lie or beat around the bush about what we want to appear "deep" or "like a good person"

I will tell you straight up honest what we want so you can actually trust me opinion... All we really want is jus a hot girl, jus a girl who looks hot, then we are happy

[Isitweird997]

Were are actually very simple.. you don't need 100 different qualities like this post suggest. Jus look good. Job done

[natured]

That's sad, because my partner had MANY opportunities to be with HOT GIRLS but he chose me over them... I wonder why...
I'll ask him later, who knows what he will tell me...
-_-
*Facepalm*

[Isitweird997]

Ok maybe what I said wasn't true to all men, but to shallow psychopaths like myself who don't care about what's on the inside of a person

[Isitweird997]

I will rephrase.. if you want to attract an emotionless guy jus look hot

[Isitweird997]

I made the mistake of assuming all guys are like me jus cos I'm a guy I thought I knew about guys... But we must actually all be different

[Isitweird997]

I do apologize

[natured]

It's Okay, but i'm also sure that sooner or latter you will understand that you will prefer some average girl that has brains rather than beauty :)

[HawkPerception]

Lol this low IQ dude speaking for the rest of us smh

[natured]

@HawkPerception Don't say that, he just didn't happen to fall in love yet, he will change his mind i'm sure. SO let's respect his thoughts and also he apologized and I forgave him :) And he also said that he is not speaking for all.
RESPECT EACH OTHER

[Tstrbrainer]

Maybe he is right too.
In my opinion, @natured look quite great. Most men would choose her over other women

[exitseven]

yes, I looked for somebody that shares my values and has a similar background. We will understand each other better and have common goals.
She should be atractive (not perfect) and loves sex as well.

[Nik1hil]

😍😍 OMG what an honor...

😢😢 You mentioned my advice

[sp33d]

An upvote just for having the mental capacity to copy & paste these comments one by one.

[natured]

It's not as hard as it looks :)

[rebeliouse]

@natured
So what was your conclusion as to what a man wants in a woman?
Do you think it exists?
Are you that kind of woman?

[natured]

I don't think there is a definite conclusion, because as you can see different Men want different things from women, I already mentioned this, we're not the same. I'm the perfect match for my partner, but i might not be the perfect match for another man.
There is no perfect WOMAN or MAN in this world, wouldn't it be boring if everything was perfect even in a relationship?

[rebeliouse]

not sure a perfect relationship would be boring by definition it would be perfect therefore not boring :D arguing sucks

[natured]

Of course arguing sucks.. but a perfect perfection does not exist, it is just a standard that people made by their own perspectives.
The greatest irony of a human being is that we search for perfection in relationships when we ourselves are imperfect beings. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. A perfect relationship is one where “You live and let live, understanding is deep, and you respect the other person’s individuality.” But it can't always be super smooth.

[bamesjond0069]

Youthful
Virgin or at least very close
Sweet and caring
Feminine
Healthy and fit
Submissive

[msc545]

I would like someone who isn't going to try to ruin my life.

[Anonymous]

I agree with the first guy who mentioned wanting a partner n crime. I want a bad bitch who won't leave just because Im the man, I dont want a fake submissive bitch who will act nice as long as I simp

[Sketti2021]

That is a lot to read lmao

[natured]

It's okay sunshine :) I'm sorry I will make them shorter next time

[scott04sa22]

Money does fuel their attraction. No money or a single penny means no lady friend.

[natured]

Not in all cases, Money shouldn't play a huge role in these things at least not for me.

[scott04sa22]

That's good on your part but the lady's I always run into that's all they mostly want and I'm not bullshitting. I been rejected just about everything you can thing of. I even rejected over a single mole I have 🤷🏻‍♂️ The women where I'm at are very shallow on their men

[natured]

I'm really sorry that you're surrounded by Women like that, it's really sad and I hope you'll find someday a girl that actually LOVES you and all your imprefections. It's hard nowadays, and It's really sad.
HEY it's their loss, don't even stress your nerves, you deserve so much better.

[scott04sa22]

Thanks for listening. It's very hard finding some who wants something serious with you then someone who doesn't listen to you or play those damn games then laugh their ass off from rejecting you. Yes it's sad and depressing sometimes. People don't like this because it scares them off but every good single men deserves better then always been played all the time! My two core dating problems I get from people is i got no drivers licenses and I'm way too kinky in bed and there's hardly any woman on my level has the same bed preferences as me. It's sucks

[natured]

Aw man, don't give up just yet, you'll score when you least expect it. Just be patient and in the meantime focus on something more important, something that makes you happy.
Don't loose hope

[scott04sa22]

I could go on ranting about it. I been looking about 23 years now and as of now still can't land a girlfriend. I got nerdy stuff I still enjoy. There's been times I lost hope and times I just want to take a long camping vacations I talked about on here.

[Anonymous]

What we really want is open relationships so we can fuck your hot girlfriend.