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She wrote you a message saying she would like you two to go out for a drink alone, without your mutual friends. You answered you’d love to, but when she proposed a day and time, you didn’t answer. A week later, you see her at a friends party. You two talk quite little during the party, se is probably embarrassed and somewhat avoiding you. When you leave to go home you:

I’m not terrible looking, maybe cute? This is feedback I’ve gotten outside of family and friends. And I’m this old, with really no success with using the dating apps. I’ve tried paid and not paid, all leading to absolute frustration. I’m trying bumble now, maybe my 3rd time, I usually delete it after 2-3 days. The account I have atm has been active for about a week, so far, maybe 2 guys didn’t reply to my intro message but the others have. BUT, the convo dies out very soon or they ghost that early on. I’ve been on and off other dating apps for years, my mother pretty much said that dating apps work and she thinks she would have success with them (she already has) because she makes the first move in messaging the guy. Hello, isn’t that what I’m doing and still chronically single? Something about guys on the other dating apps seem questionable, they’re all: players, crazy or normal but just not my type.

Anyone else feel like dating apps are all about hook ups?