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My "Before I Commit" List
I think all of us (who have dated) have gone through that frustration of becoming official with someone and then six months into dating find out something that you truly would have not dated the person in the first place...
Types of Racists
Racism and xenophobia are bad. I have witnessed both of them and they are not fun. I look totally white but I have a dose of Native Alaskan tucked in there and I don't dare tell certain people because of how they would...
Should I move on?
I've been married for about 7 months, it was an arranged marriage (we sorta arranged it) we had a lot of issues in the beginning I can't let go. We met online and I wasn't looking for anything serious, he was. We...
Do you think people that take back cheaters suffer self-esteem issues?
For me taking back a cheater would be like eating a shitty, leftover sandwich. Something like this: The sandwich is no longer in it's original wholesome, untainted state. Similarly, by staying with a cheater in a...
Dating: Muslim Style
Disclaimer: This is a random commentary on my experience in the Muslim dating world. My experience is not representative of all Muslims. There are lots of things at play when trying to find a partner in my community. His...
Don't Do It! Don't Do It! . . . Damn, You Did It!
This is another rewrite of an earlier myTake about the folly of attempting to reconcile failed relationships. This is NOT directed at couples who break up for reasons that do not relate to the quality of the relationship,...
Modern Marriage Isn't Working...
“Marriage: Love is the reason. Lifelong friendship is the gift. Kindness is the cause. Til’ death do us part is the length.” Here are eight key ways our modern world seems to be missing the mark when it comes to marriage....
I broke up with my boyfriend even though I'm still madly in love with him because he's behaviour forced me to :/ I'm devastated I need help?
Ok im 17 so was my boyfriend. He was my first love. We were best friends for years and went out for 9 months. Anyways his parents are extreme religious with their views. His parents say they love god more than their kids...
How to get my boyfriend to work harder in our relationship and to see things more long term with me?
Well my relationship has been a lot of work to say the least. At first it was everything I had hoped and had ever wanted in a relationship and even in a man. We have been together for 2 years but had a bad break for 3...
Guys, why did he do this to me?
All along, I had this sneaking suspicion he was hiding something from me. We were close friends for a year before moving into the friends with benefits stage - but we'd always tell each other everything before. Funny part...
My wife of 16 years had an affair with a coworker?
I caught them on date. We separated for over a year. During that year she said she wanted a divorce and that it was over. She continued to see HIM and I became depressed and suicidel. I met a woman at work and we quickly...
10 Things I Learnt After Being Single For So Long
I had been single and sexless for 2 years 5 months 7 days. It was by choice, not because "I was a loser" as some may think and label; or because I am one of those women who think they don't need a man. I am an...
How Do I Know if He or She is The One?
This is the third installment of updates of the significant myTakes that I wrote a few years ago. I hope this is even more helpful than the original post. We all know some guy who desperately wants to be married. The only...
Dear MGTOWs and Hardcore Feminists...
If you are single, it is your fault, not the entire opposite gender's. You fail at relationships because of yourself and you can't find "the one" because you're not "the one" back. If you want to be happy and...
Girlfriend sex/commitment?
Hi, I'm dating a girl, she's my first real long term girlfriend. We're both college sophomores, she's had other serious boyfriends before but I've only short term relationships. I've never had to break up with anyone...
FAQ you GaG: Part 2! Your Frequently Asked Questions, your opinions, with a bit of humour and trolling!
Disclaimer: There are no stupid questions. The purpose of this myTake is to make people laugh, add a little smile on some people's face. It's not supposed to make fun of anyone or any kind of situation. If you're still...
My wife cheated while I was away?
We have been married 15 years and have two kids. I have a great and stable career and recently bought a large home with my wife. One of my best friends was having a hard time with his life and I offered him my spare...
Around the World Through Books
A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini Setting: Afghanistan Expanding over several decades this story focuses on two women, Laila and Mariam. Mariam faces stigma of being an illegitimate child and abuse throughout...
FAQ You Gag! A Collection of Our Beloved Frequently Asked Questions
Disclaimer: This is NOT supposed to offend or hurt anyone's feelings/belief or whatever. This IS supposed to be a nice and funny myTake. However, if you feel hurt, I can't help you, but I can surely help you laugh....
I lied to someone about who I am and fell in love with him. Any advice?
First of all, I know how awful what I did was, so please, spare any judgement, I feel awful enough I met a guy last year, he was incredibly attractive and a little drunk. We had a quick conversation and exchanged...
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The sandwich is no longer in it's original wholesome, untainted state. Similarly, by staying with a cheater in a relationship or marriage, you will no longer think of that person the same whenever love songs come up on the radio, you will never feel that person has your back/best interests 100%, you would probably won't even feel like it would be worth sacrificing your life if a crisis came up, etc.