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So, I'm starting to think that every single action the vast majority of fhumans take is all thinking about obtaining a mate. Their positions on issues, lifestyle choices, careers, thoughts, interests, actions, behaviors. I rarely get messages from females, but when I do, it's like they're taking a checklist out and trying to see exactly which marks I have to see whether or not I am a sufficient male. "What is your job? How much money do you make? How many friends do you have? What are you doing with your life? Do you think you'd be a good dad?" And we all know males propensity to brute force their way into sexual conversations. Given that, it's also the male's job to pursue. If females were interested in concepts, wouldn't they message males more? As for males, males rarely message me, either. At times I get one or two, less than females, and we talk out some specific issue then they dissappear. On other social media sites. When I have my picture up, I get messages from females, all--all--ostensibly sexually inclined or interested. When I don't have it up, I pretty much get no messages.

There are subjects, for instance on GAG, where people are arguing certain stances on issues. Is that ultimately out of a sexual reproduction motivation? For instance, the whole feminism debates thing. Men want to devalue women, because it makes sex easier to get? Women want to raise their value, because that makes them, well, more valuable and capable of landing a higher quality male? But then you have female anti-feminists, so what do they get out of it? Solidarity with the male anti-feminists? I really don't know. I'm not saying any of this is how it is. It's just a question I've been thinking about.

Naturally, I think we all know that sex drives the human race. It's sorta the goal of life. But, is every single thing based on it?
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I am passively resisting the fact that you suck. I am celibate, because I don't give a fuuuuck. Or maybe I do and don't even realize it. :(

I turned down a few girls in college and high school. Usually they're my friends before and after I turned them down. Recently a lot of them have been getting into relationships or getting engaged. Whenever I see them pop up on my news feed on Facebook I like them. Today I realized that this may not be a good thing to do. I often tried really hard to stay friends with the girls I turned down to make sure they knew I still liked them as a person and a friend I just didn't want to date them. (I'm naturally a solitary person) I've even attended the weddings of two girls I turned down and became friends with thier spouses (kinda). So I felt like being supportive of their relationships was the right thing to do. But I realized that i'd never do it to an ex girlfriend so I can't help I may be doing the wrong thing here. What do you think?

If it matters, most of the time I turned down girls by purposefully avoiding relationship talks and activities and stuff until they gave up but occasionally I did have to have face to face conversations were I had to verbally say no.

And do you think it makes a difference if you've been in sexual situations with them?