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So my 30th birthday is coming up and I feel a bit down about it. One thing that gets me down is I'm going to be 30 and still a virgin. Not just that but I also never actually had a girlfriend. Actually I never even kissed a girl. This makes me feel like some weirdo or a loser.

I mean I have gone on a few dates before but not many, less then 10. I have had a handful of women ask me out on dates but for the most part I would just turn them down since I wouldn't be interested in them.

I only asked out a few women myself, less then have asked out me. But the thing for me is I find I have to get to know a girl and become her friend before I start to find myself interested in dating her. So by this point they usually just see me as a friend or they have lost interest in me or they were never interested in me to begin with. That and I am just horrible at picking up on when someone is flirting with me or is interested in me, I just assume they are being friendly.

I like to think that I'm a normal, nice guy. But just had bad luck. That and I'm a bit of an introvert so I have trouble meeting and opening up to new people. I wouldn't consider myself unattractive and I have had many women tell me they find me attractive so I don't see it as that. Whenever anyone mentions my past relationships or sexual partners I just lie since I find it so embarrassing.

I'm curious what women think of a guy like me. Do they see me as weird and a loser? Would they actually have an interest in dating a guy like me or no? What are just their general thoughts on a guy like me? Any advice you have for me to help me change this situation I'm in? Give me your honest opinion.

So I’m an 18 year old obese male.

i started gaining weight in the third grade
before the third grade I was very skinny...
im not sure what happened but I started picking up weight.
Im now a senior in high school & I've reached 300 lbs.

I've been trying to lose weight since the 8th grade.
I've been trying for years... literally years...
at this point honestly I’ve given up.
Instead of getting rid of my fat, I want to hide it.

I dont look as big as I actually am, but I’m not small
Some things help me look smaller like the fact that I’m 6”0 tall & have facial hair
The thing about my body that bothers me the most is my chest.. I have a big chest for a boy.
its frustrating because I’ve seen men that were so much bigger than me with smaller chests

i currently have a small waist trainer that I wrap around my chest, but if I have it on for longer than an hour it’ll rip open.
I started talking to this transgender person F-M
& they recommend a chest binder... This is a chest binder


I feel ashamed because these were made specially for women
Women who want to hide their breasts.
Everywhere I look online it talks about ways to hide breast... I refuse to claim that I have breast..
i just have a big chest. & I feel ashamed that I have to buy this... it’s like admitting that I have breast..

Do you think it’s wrong for a man to buy this?
Would this be unattractive?