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Hey, if my question didn't make since I'll try to clarify a bit. As much as I myself am not a firm believer in the place formally known as the friend zone. I know people who do believe in it an as a result, experienced the pain of rejection because of it. Though, as I've learned some of those who've gone through it have become a bit bitter because of it. These people who I'm referring to are likely to take their anger out in passive aggressive ways.

For example one might say, "It's always the nice guys who get overlooked for the jerk who'll never love her. Oh well, she'll feel the same pain soon when he dumps her for another hot girl." There are many reasons why this statement is uncalled for, but I'll let you figure out why on your own. The point is, the individuals who make these comments or have these complaints are usually men. Now I'm not saying all men, so please don't beat me up to badly. Yet, they seem to be the most upset about the friend zone. Some will even band together in order to make themselves feel better by making funny quotes, memes, or just talking trash about the person they once liked.

Though, nothing makes bitter friend zoned guys stand together more than a female who claims to have experienced the friend zone. In the forum world of the friend zone any girl who utters the words, "I was put into the friend zone." Will suffer at the hands of an already toxic community. Now I wouldn't say it if I hadn't seen it happen in many forums myself. These girls get ripped to shreds if they claim the friend zone. They'll be cussed out, demonized, and their pain will be turned into an absolute joke. Because in the minds of these self proclaimed nice guys, females cannot be friend zoned even though anyone can be rejected. Let's be honest a guy labeling a girl as bro or dude is the same as a girl calling a guy her brother or good friend.

What do you think?
P. S. I think the friend zone is absolutely pointless.