Search Results: being a good friend friendship

I don't know what to call this post. guess it’s a vent…?

In the past, I assumed that all guys were being honest when they said that they were interested in me. Unfortunately, some of them weren’t honest and ended up using me for one reason or the other. For the past 2...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How many people have you told "I love you"?

I have a good friend whom I've known for years. My relationship to her became close and eventually began causing problems in my marriage. We never slept together, but I began to worry, care, and protect her in ways that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it even worth it to try to maintain a friendship with somebody who's drifting away because of her boyfriend?

Okay, so what I thought was my closest friend (of 8 years) has this long distance relationship with her boyfriend because of college. We're both freshmen and we go to colleges that are 20 minutes apart. She seems to miss...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean when he sends shirtless pics and pics of him in his underwear? How should I proceed?

Okay i know the answer is obvious. But im still halfway baffled and dont know what to think of it. I (f21) have this friend (m18) that is also a cousin of my ex (of 5 years). Long story short, the relationship with my ex...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I ask her if she want to date as more than friends or keep being friends?

I'm dating a girl that I know since were 10 years old, we were never really friends, but we recently start connecting again. We have a really good time together, she always text me she had a great time after we see each...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex friend wants to be friends again. What should I do?

So I have this guy friend who I've known for two years.. At first everyone pretty much liked him more out of us two and mutal friends defended him more. We got into it over something that was neither of our fault. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Sexual thoughts/desires for ex who is my best friend, how to deal with this?

So I dated this girl for about 1.5 years but we ended splitting up as, for our own reasons, we were not ready for a relationship and we wanted different things in the future. After a little bit of time to both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is she flirting with me?

hi there A few months ago I come out to a friend that I am bisexual. She was really supportive about it which was great but recently she has been acting so strange with me. A few weeks after I came out to her we...

claire2510

Xper 3 Age: 38

Should I be suspicious of her trying to reconnect with me and should I go further with it?

This might be a long story but here goes. My childhood best friend recently sent me a friend request on Facebook and is trying to get in contact with me. I've been ghosting her for years as we had a very rocky, toxic...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Do you women regret being friendship wreckers? do you consider it before becoming one?

My ex and my best friend hooked up. Mostly because she was mad at me after our breakup (Im guessing. Not sure). She went to my bestfriend to cry and 3 weeks after our breakup (which I had to initiate because she literally...

Doc1987

Xper 1 Age: 39

Dating

Why can’t I find a boyfriend?

I am 25, I have a good job and I am progressing in it. I have my own place. I model with a modeling agency, yet I do not take that to my head. I’m very humble and also caring. I love giving and being around my boyfriend....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why doesn't he want to be friends with me?

We have sex and he doesn't want to be friends. I said i was fine with being just friends with benefits if thats what he wanted. But he just just strictly does sex doesn't want to cuddle or at least hang out. He doesn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it okay to trash talk about your best friend if they did something wrong?

A few characters in my "story." First, my best friend, let's call her X. Second, my other friend who's close to my best friend, let's call her Y. Finally, Y's boyfriend, Z. I got really close to Z and we used to text a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I let this friendship go? How do you deal with an abusive/toxic friend? Help?

It's been around six years since I met her, I can't count the amount of time that I have cried because of her mistreatment towards me. I have always loved her from the start, but i'm always being taken for granted by her....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was my relationship with my childhood best friend toxic?

My (former) best friend abruptly ended our decades long friendship after I invited her to my wedding. She never congratulated me. I had a feeling something was wrong but I didn’t want to assume so I waited for her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Simple tips to live a good life and be happy!

Being happy - that sounds so simple, yet so difficult in nowadays frenetic life, with the pandemic and political turmoils. Or maybe is really that simple, and not as difficult? The key to reaching happiness is not known,...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

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Dating

Reasons why the "friendzone" doesn't exist

This won't be too long. I've read many, many, maaaaany questions on here about the friendzone , and my answer , as unlikable as it can be, it's always thus - the ''friendzone'' doesn't exist . Or better - it does...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

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I lost my person and I don't know what to do?

My best friend and I both work in health care, we have been drained with the needs of both our work places. In the past year, we would be fighting and at times - it felt like it was over between us. We are very close,...

Lana1987

Xper 2 Age: 39