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One of the harmful stereotypes is that all men are abusive and All fathers are tough it's harmful and dangerous because it sets up scenarios and stereotypes that deny the uniqueness of the situation and caps the complexity of human beings. Just because you have a father doesn't mean that they are tough doesn't mean they're abusive it doesn't mean they're out to get you. From what I learned this is what women's select out of their mates and this is why The Stereotype exist in most cases women pick men who are tough to the point of being abusive power hungry hurt you through their insecurities these are the type of men that women want and these are the type of men who normally become our fathers. On the other hand women are human as well they are responsible for just as much evil as men in fact The Stereotype that they are incapable of evil does more harm inside of relationships. Especially the variety of son and mother. I have experienced abuse at the hands of my mother the hands that we're supposed to care and feed for me abused me it would be one thing if it was obvious but it led to me being confused and not moving on in my life and making indecisive decisions all the things that make me a weaker man and all the things that women theme as worthless and weakness. She would have used me and try to identify it as tough love and say that I was weak I guess the Tipping Point was when I have to fight her boyfriend and then she called me a sissy when I brought it up. I'm working out the emotional problems and issues inside of me. Women's interests aside no one's going to help me do that; it's something I want to do. But I have to work a lot harder because normally men redeem that trauma points through their sex lives when it comes to mother problems. the question and poll I have for the guys is how many men have gone through parental abuse at the hands of their mother and what did you use to cope?

This girl from bumble I started seeing found me on facebook after a miscommunication. You see, several months ago she hung up on me during our first phone call. Long story short I called her out on it and moved on. She was shocked. The details are complicated. Well, I guess she found me on facebook 2 months ago and sent me a message. I never saw it and didn't reply.

This week, I came across the message. I replied forgetting who she was and thinking it was some long lost relative reaching out. Well... it was her. Ever since I called her out and told her off she has been coming very strong and hard. Like.. very thirsty. Messaging me a lot. Apologizing for what she did.

She has openly admitted to liking me a lot. Now she's admitted that she has:

-Looked at my facebook pictures
-Read my facebook timeline the last few days
-She said she knows that I like to "sex text" because she saw a post I made a few days ago joking about it.

Now she wants to set up all these dates. She wants to know my schedule of when I am available. I joked that I was a "Shy guy turned ladies man". She now has been rather bristled by this and says she doesn't like a man with ego. I just ignored that and said it was just a "fact". Now she's being very aggressive asking about dates. She is asking if I will keep seeing all the ladies. I told her yes until I am officially dating a girl.

Anyway, is this all normal? Is it normal for a girl to want to know everything about a man? To study his social media and try to get a sense of what he's doing in life?

I’ve never used a dating site or app before and I was wondering what most of you guys do, I kind of think it’s a good idea because you gotta remember that you are meeting up with someone from the internet and that can be sketchy at times, I’ve also heard of times when guys have been set up by being tricked into meeting up with someone using a fake account, then they get ambushed and robbed.