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Is it normal for a girl to study/read a guy's social media if she is crushing on him hard? Or is that stalker?

Is it normal for a girl to study/read a guys social media if she is crushing on him hard? Or is that stalker?
This girl from bumble I started seeing found me on facebook after a miscommunication. You see, several months ago she hung up on me during our first phone call. Long story short I called her out on it and moved on. She was shocked. The details are complicated. Well, I guess she found me on facebook 2 months ago and sent me a message. I never saw it and didn't reply.

This week, I came across the message. I replied forgetting who she was and thinking it was some long lost relative reaching out. Well... it was her. Ever since I called her out and told her off she has been coming very strong and hard. Like.. very thirsty. Messaging me a lot. Apologizing for what she did.

She has openly admitted to liking me a lot. Now she's admitted that she has:

-Looked at my facebook pictures
-Read my facebook timeline the last few days
-She said she knows that I like to "sex text" because she saw a post I made a few days ago joking about it.

Now she wants to set up all these dates. She wants to know my schedule of when I am available. I joked that I was a "Shy guy turned ladies man". She now has been rather bristled by this and says she doesn't like a man with ego. I just ignored that and said it was just a "fact". Now she's being very aggressive asking about dates. She is asking if I will keep seeing all the ladies. I told her yes until I am officially dating a girl.

Anyway, is this all normal? Is it normal for a girl to want to know everything about a man? To study his social media and try to get a sense of what he's doing in life?
Yes. Most girls who have a crush on a guy look through his pictures and read through his timeline. It is not "Stalker" or "Psycho" to do that.
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No. If a girl likes a guy she may look at a few pictures. But she won't study everything about him. That is pretty stalker. A red flag.
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I actually really like her a lot. Im not creeped out yet. But i have a hard time knowing what is normal these days.
Is it normal for a girl to study/read a guy's social media if she is crushing on him hard? Or is that stalker?
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