Search Results: do people have the right not to be judged

After a year and a bit of getting my heart broken by the first guy I fell in love with, I came across another guy who changed my life, and I can 100% say I love him. I can be myself with him, he makes me so happy, and he doesn't judge me for the things other people would judge me for. He accepts me. He was sure of his feelings and he knew he liked me, then some way along the line, he became extremely busy at work and wasn't sure how he felt anymore. Now, I'm not sure how he feels. He acts like he likes me, but sometimes I overthink and think he doesn't... but I haven't asked if he's made up his mind yet.

Some days we don't talk much at all which causes me to overthink, and because I've lost two friendships that have been really important to me in the last 6 months, and right now I feel like I'm about to lose the one person who was there more me when I needed someone the most. To add to that, I feel like I might lose him too, or maybe I'm overthinking that as well. I told him I didn't wanna lose him, and he said I haven't, but I still worry. I just wish I could tell him about everything that happened with my last guy so he can understand why I overthink and overreact, but I don't know if it's a good idea. Should I? Things are also a bit hard for us because we're doing long distance (more than just friends, but we aren't dating).

I am not here to point any fingers, as my aunty told me my parents wanted abort me and they decided not to which I am alive today because of that decision of theirs.

The way I personally see it is, I wouldn't abort a child of mine, but I recognize that other people have their own rights, and I shouldn't not be infringing on their rights to make that choice. My parents were both in University, when I was a baby I suffered a lot with a disease because my parents couldn't afford good medical care, my mom told me I was so sick my dad cried and she had never seen him crying, fortunately they made some sacrifices and got me the medical care I needed. When people are in a situation to bring a child to the world and that child might suffer in world, or they're not mentally ready to have kids. Yes there's adoption but not all children get adopted, so they're getting into a broken foster system which might also leave them damaged. The other is for young teens, by having that baby it can simultaneously destroy two lives hers and the babies. I am definitely pro choice.

However I would like to open up a discussion about it why are there people out there who are against it. I would like to hear from everyone with no judgement, from me or anyone else that answers the post, please be respectful of people's views, you can comment and ask questions but don't judge and insult.

THIS IS A NO JUDGEMENT DISCUSSION