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A lot of guys on here look at submissiveness as being delicate and soft spoken. Just doing whatever their told like a mindless puppet. Yeah, that last part is by definition submissiveness, but I've never looked at it this way. Soft spoken girls who are shy and delicate have never really attracted me because it reeks of a lack of confidence and assertiveness. Delicate and shy people generally aren't very successful.

I like a woman who's confident enough to say what's on her mind and not too shy to show the world what she's about. If a woman is submissive to everyone and every situation, then what does her submission even mean? It means nothing because it's not earned. That type of girl would be the first to cheat on you as well.

My girl would be considered extremely dominant by most men who she comes across. She's aggressive and she's by no means afraid to say what's on her mind. She's a natural leader. Having said that, she's extremely submissive, but only to me because I earned that side of her through time and trust. Her finally trusting me enough to lead the relationship meant 10x more to me than a girl who just hands it overlike nothing.

The most aggressive women in my experience seem to be the most submissive, loyal, and they also seem to make the best girlfriends/wives. It just takes the right guy to get them to that point. Anyone else on board with me here?

Let's suppose you're dating someone knowing that you will continue with him, will you trust him totally from the beginning or will you trust him progressively. In my opinion trust is something earned especially lately when I come to see that I can easily be played with if I put my trust in the wrong person without knowing that. But if it turns out it's the right person she will get my full trust at some point of the relationship.