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So I'm sure most guys can relate to the struggle of Tinder and online dating in general. While girls struggle with finding "the right guy" there are plenty of us out there. The problem is, nobody ever replies to us and have incredibly high expectations for the first message like "be different" or other ambiguous/superficial criteria. Most of us men average 1 reply for every 20-50 messages we send out. Even still, there is a very low probability that the replies will continue after 1-3 messages. On Tinder I personally average 1 match every 2-3 days, even if I swipe every single person right indiscriminantly (which I do on occasion.) I decided I'm going to post a new recurring series of questions.

These will include photos of my Tinder profile and girls can vote and explain their votes in order for me to learn the best practices as well as share them with other guys like me who are struggling to receive replies because there are a lot of us. Also please be brutal honest about other factors like racial preferences, physical attraction, etc. So anyway, below you will see my profile and all of my pictures and bio.

Bear in mind. I'm well aware that the last bit of my bio isn't exactly the most appealing statement but just note that it's there as a RESULT of no replies. It's not the cause of them. I've tried several different types of bios from funny, serious, disgruntled (lol) and it doesn't seem like it makes a difference on my rate of replies or matches.

This is my display picture. I always hated the idea of using filters to fake the lighting etc but I guess that's the norm now. Trying it out.

DISCLAIMER!! I'M TALKING ABOUT THE PART OF DATING WHEN YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A PARTNER BEFORE YOU'VE ACTUALLY FOUND SOMEONE TO SETTLE DOWN WITH

Is sometimes feels like we live in an era where you're expected to just give yourself away when dating like a donation, as if what you want doesn't really matter. Always telling other people how their dating standards are wrong. Why do we do this to each other.

The most out of the box dating standard that I have is that I only want to date virgin women (I'm a virgin too). I'm not dating at the moment but I do think about it a lot. I really tried to think otherwise and be more "accepting", but I basically forcing myself to be open to something I truly didn't want. People who were supposed to be my main influence in my youth gave me the wrong perception of sex and dating, the biggest one being my first step dad. I have mental issues and I have crazy delusions and I feel that dating someone who's not a virgin would just lead me down a mental decline and will live a life of depression and insecurity. Here's one of the delusions I would have, this is from my actual journal

So I decided to think about myself and my own happiness and accepted this standard as who I am, but I can't help but think that everyone is giving me angry eyes about it. Am I wrong for this? Let me know below.

I've also noticed that people who do shame people about their standard tend to be hypocrites. The women will say that it's wrong to reject a woman for her sex history but will turn around and say they won't date a conservative and the men will say that it's wrong for women to care about financial status but turn around and say they won't date a girl with small butt and boobs. So your standards are wrong but their's is fully justified, rules for the but not for me.

DATE WHO THE HELL YOU WANT AS LONG AS IT'S LEGAL
CAN WE AGREE WITH THAT?