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Search Results: initiating a break up
Coworker stalked me on social media for 2.5 years? What it may mean?
He watched my social media daily, sometimes multiple times a day. I noticed this for a year but didn't say anything since we have kids and came from broken relations. I noticed him being protective and speaking up for me...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What is the intention of my ex boyfriend saying that he misses me?
Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ex-boyfriend said he misses me and that things have been hard. Advice?
Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to...
Anonymous
(36-45) What did he mean in our conversation?
My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. We were only dating for a month and a half. However, a few weeks ago I sent him a letter full of hurtful things about him that I didn’t mean. He blocked me entirely on his...
lovelornlady1207
Xper 1 Age: 47 Is there anything else I can do other than NC to get my ex back?
So my ex broke up with me in November 2020. He cried a lot and so did I. Said it was the right decision, for now, says he may be some big idiot, all the silly stuff they probably just tell you. Stupidly I stayed in...
Anonymous
(36-45) HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"
One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....
u How do guys feel when getting back together after breakup? If you feel you can't see a future with someone, can that feeling change?
last month, my boyfriend broke up with me over the phone. I couldnt accept it and asked him to rethink but he was very adamant about the breakup. he thinks im too selfish and can't see a future with me. we talked and met...
jjjuvely
Xper 3 Age: 35 Boyfriend isn’t satisfied in bed?
I caught my boyfriend texting his ex girlfriend. They broke up around 3.5 years ago. After begging him to tell me why he was texting her sweet nothings, he told me that she’s better in bed than I am. When I asked him if...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my ex-boyfriend putting me on the backburner and was our last contact an open-ended discussion. Advice?
Ex and I broke up in November 2020. We caught up a week later (pushed by me) and we've stayed in contact ever since up until about 6 weeks ago. We have had a few long phone calls since and as always he's expressed doubt...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why won't my boyfriend break up with me? He doesn't seem to love me so why is he with me? He is awful to me. He seems to almost hate me?
We've been together a year. I'm 29 he's 32. We've never even had sex. Any time i tried he would go soft. He hasn't touched me in months. I try to initiate and he either doesn't notice I'm trying to put the moves on him or...
mmmgabby
Xper 3 Age: 34 Unsure whether it's up to me (26F) to reach out to my ex-boyfriend (35M) or if he should be. Advice?
So my ex broke up with me in November 2020. He was extremely upset and cried a lot. I sort of could see the break up coming as things were stressful around that time period and I myself, a few times over the phone...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why has my ex still not told his friends we broke up 4 months after we broke up?
My ex invited me to his birthday with some of his friends after lockdown restrictions have eased. I said it might be awkward as we have broken up. He then told me he hasn’t told them yet? We broke up 4 months ago. Why...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you deal with knowing you will probably never hear from them again?
Ex broke up with me in November, we stayed in contact and caught up a week later. He cried a few times in person with me and over the phone. He expressed his usual doubts and still sort of does to this day. For months, we...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do guys send songs to a girl just because?
My ex sent me a song and it was a really intimate song “Meeting in My Bedroom” by Silk. The songs have sexual lyrics but also romantic ones like when he says “You’re everything that I’ve been searching for that I’ve been...
sd1223
Yoda Age: 29 Trying to find this balance between genuinely knowing change within people could take months/years but not holding also holding onto false hope?
So, my ex broke up with me late last year during a difficult time. We have been in contact ever since (possibly a wrong decision) and we caught up once after we broke up, nothing sexual, just normal catching up where he...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it worth the fight anymore? My boyfriend hates questions and am now too fearful to open any conversations currently?
Am just too confused about his feelings for me , the relationship has lasted for some considerable time however he takes long to see me in person claims he’s fixed no money to transport him we keep chatting via WhatsApp...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would I be correct in thinking that he’s using me for my money?
We have a thing going on I just paid his phone bill & his Netflix subscription (lmao) he texted me a day later saying “can you transfer me more cash to my online banking babe so I can buy smokes and gas I was suppose to...
Anonymous
(25-29) What should my first text be to her {Geeky, attractive girl}?
I knew this attractive girl back in HS who's very open about her interests in anime/video games. We bonded over those things fairly quickly, she's a fan of my artwork, and mixed with her cool attitude I wanted to become...
Blerdsmith19
Xper 5 Age: 24 Is it wrong or I should completely heal first?
My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago he broke up with me because I confronted him with his mistakes that he had done to me so he switched it on me as if I’m crazy and immature. He broke my trust. So he wanted to end...
Anonymous
(25-29) What Are the Chances That This Discussion Will End With Us Ending Things?
I'm nervous about bringing up my feelings with this guy I'm casually dating, what if I'm just a fling to him? By "casually dating," I mean that we've only seen each other in-person a handful of times. The last time we...
Anonymous
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