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In her mid twenties and is truly alone. Spends time by herself 24/7 and was on and off dating apps for years, has called it quits for now. They say dating apps are what you make them but I mean most women are approached first by their boyfriends. I really feel like making the first move versus having the guy initiate the first message really didn’t change the outcome. It just hurts you know, you’re told you’re not bad looking and even when you were a little younger and skinnier, guys never gave you attention in person so you resort to the apps. And the apps are a waste of time, as shallow as it sounds, I see cute/average women get handsome guys and I do feel like I should be eligible enough to get a cute guy too. But I never got what I wanted from the apps, I get msgs but ghosting and what you’d normally expect. It feels like a lost cause, knowing you’re so young and will never find love just bites. How are so many people capable of dating and finding good guys while I am just invisible 🤔

I have a Persian (Iranian) nose and I'm insecure about it, it's too big for my face and it's really droopy especially when I smile, I got bullied about it a lot in middle school. Kids would make fun of my nose or just straight up call me ugly or say that I had a really big nose. Now, I always try to smile weaker so my nose doesn't droop down, people say I look "cute", especially my family, but I'm not sure I mean it. I really want to get a nose job when I'm older, but I just want to know if they would date a girl with a nose like mine.

P. S., if you didn't know this, Iran is the number one country with the biggest amount of Nose Jobs. So pretty much all Iranians have big noses like mine, some are lucky enough to have absolutely beautiful noses.

Im going to be 27 later this year and feel very certain regarding my fate with dating. I’ve never been in a long term relationship nor brought a guy home to meet my family. I’ve just never been boy crazy like other women I’ve known, closest is all the celebs I like. I’ve tried the dating apps over the course of the years and gave up, it really isn’t worth it for me. I’m told I’m cute and feel like I should be decent looking enough to attract someone relatively attractive too. But no I just can’t find what I’m looking for. Would rather be single versus settle, it’s just really unfair you know. Dating apps are hit or miss…why am I so jinxed 😡

I do like how it looks, it is comfy and has a nice relaxed look but I'm not sure whether it's "cute enough"?

I got this cardigan in white to change things up a little because 98% time I wear black tops (black contrasts great with my hair that's why), but I feel I should have gone black again 😅

I'd like to hear what you guys think! :)

So I met a guy on Hinge a few weeks ago. I’ve been busy for the past few weeks, so finally had the chance to meet him this weekend. He was accommodating of my schedule and insisted that he will change up his schedule to work for me.

Friday night, we met up for drinks at a romantic bar (he’s new to my area and wanted me to show him around). It was chill and I have to say, he’s a talker (wasn’t really that way whenever we text so it was a pleasant surprise). Like, he talked A LOT. Didn’t completely mind because I hate small talk, I just wish he asked me more about me. Left the bar, went on a long walk around the city since the weather was nice. He was a gentleman the entire time, making sure I was on the inside of the sidewalk, arm around me etc. Overall had a good time and he asked (2x when we were out, 3rd when he walked me to my door and we kissed) when he’d get to see me again.

We end up making plans for the following night. B/c I wasn’t free until very late at night (lot of places closed), we decide to have a chill night at his place. He picked me up and I met one of his best friends (it sounded like he told him about me before). We made a late dinner together then ended up hooking up. I was in my head because pretty much the entire time, his eyes were closed. I was feeling some type of way b/c I thought, maybe he wasn’t enjoying it (even though he finished) or maybe he was thinking about someone else.

So we finish with that, he takes care of me, and we talk a bit and cuddle for the rest of the night. Sneaking kisses in between, gave me a forehead and shoulder kiss. Really seemed like he wanted me to stay- when I’d try to get up to get water for example, he’d cuddle me tighter so I wouldn’t go (in a cute joking type of way). He drove me back home this morning and again, asked when he’d see me again, so we have plans for dinner/drinks this weekend.

Based on this, does it sound like he’s into me? The eyes closed/not asking enough about me makes me question.