Is it ok to ask a guy out if I'm the girl?

[Anonymous]

Guys, would you like or feel comfortable being asked out by a girl who likes you? (even if she's not exactly pretty, but she really likes you and just wants to have a cute date with you and treat you nicely, not harassing you or anything like that). I'm not the type of woman who gets asked out, so I guess I can try asking out myself although I'd be rejected most likely cause I'm such a skynny ugly girl 😂 but I think I'm brave enough to at least try. 😌 Any thoughts? Thank you.

[Pasiton5]

He would be a moron if he Rejected you asking him out just an man ask me out before you can say hi out I'll be like about time you ask other women don't take this long you need to get with it, I'm joking but it's cool to ask a dude whose to scared or shy or just can't put the words together To ask you, sure your way to do this i mean if you got to ask him does he know you exist maybe you should think it through more i mean there wood not be any hesitation on my part to approach you and say do you like picnics?

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I've asked guys out more than once got a yes every time but once he went through a lot of shit from his ex stealing his identity so I understood why hed have a hard time trusting after that! Were still friends today

If you know there's interest there why not? Guys today have it hard they are attacked if they do or if they dont.. so above all be kind..

Dont need to ask him to be your man right away ask him to hang out maybe go bowling and out to eat.. then afterwards while hugging good night say I dont want this to end, take a breath.. he might say me too.. Ask him if hed be your man he says yes seal it with a kiss and say good night ;)

[chrissykerdock]

if you ask a guy out then you have to pay for him... i rather be asked out then give him a blowjob at the end of the evening.

[The_Maphio]

If you have a dude you like but he doesn't even consider nor know you, waiting for him to do the first step might be a waste of time and effort. You could intervene personally at that point.
A dude of mine was approached by a cute brazilian while we were eating sushi, once.
They went out together and went through all the bases in 3 days.
She was a nut-case, alas, but that's besides the point.

[NamerOfStars]

Sure. Even the most traditionally-minded guy is unlikely to see it as a serious negative; you're just asking. Most guys would be flattered to even be asked. And while getting rejected sucks, if you experience it, you'll at least learn that it's not the end of the world- an important thing to learn.

[Adam1978]

Sure, even if they don't want you it's flattering that you want them. So no harm done, if you can handle a rejection. You have nothing to loose either. If you can't handle a rejection you can come out as a real bitter bitch and have certainly lost your chances.

[Novacane]

Yeah go for it, as much as people may say men do not really look down on women asking men out, it's not even intimidating as people may say, the people that look down on women asking out are super traditional men and women because it goes against the norm, but if you know what you want and are brave enough to do it then I say why not!

[AzzaBlue]

I would love it. If nothing else I'd be very impressed by the fact that you had the will power and drive to break free from the narrow mindset of "guys must approach girls." This would tell me that are proactive, confident and capable of thinking for her self. You would definitely get a yes from me. But I wouldn't want you to spoil me though.

[Dchrls78104]

Of course it's okay for the girl to ask the guy out. Besides, these days it might be safer for the guy if the girl made the first move. I'd be impressed. I happen to like skinny girls as long as the girl is not morbidly emaciated. It would be fine by me.

[Anonymous]

There's so many variables here it's impossible to answer this question. I will say this your odds of getting rejected in considerably less than a guys. But your odds of getting the kind of date you want is lower I'd say.
Also we don't know whether you mean a specific guy or just a guy.
I mean I'd like a date with Scarlett Johansson. But c'mon let's be real.

[AgentRED]

It would be a dream come true.


Also reinforces the idea that “hey, she really does like me? That’s great I’ve always felt the same about her too!”

[Tiptoetamm]

Yes. I know what I want and I'll go for it. I'll be nervous. I asked my hubby out 11 years ago one of the best things I have ever done.

[WhiteWolf69]

I think it's awesome when women ask me out. A lot of times when I like a woman I get really nervous and I dont ask her out because I have a fear of rejection. I start doubting how good I actually am and look. So I just dont most times.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

It's 2021, it stopped being weird to ask men out at least five years ago.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure! Did they ever have Sadie Hawkins day where you are?
I think I would LOVE to have a girl ask me out!!
All you can do is try!!

[moviedude714]

If I was attracted to her it would be a dream come true, I always resented how men are expected to do the asking out due to how one-sided it is

[exitseven]

I am married but you sound so nice I almost wish you would ask me out.

[Wise4myage]

I see nothing wrong with that at all, and I wish more girls did it.

[AmeerX]

It is okay and you can try on Interpal or some other site to get an idea

[Cowboy6666]

I dont see any problem if any girl/lady ask me out
If she is fun, open minded, not racist then I would welcome that girl/lady tbh

[Anonymous]

Yes, I asked my boyfriend out, and we have been dating for almost a year now.

[Texasguy99]

I say be confident and go for it. I’d ge flattered. I may not say yes but at least you tried.

[Jamie-xo]

Yeah. I'm a more submissive guy so I'd prefer that.

[JosyJosy]

Why would it Not be okay? Answer me this