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So I know someone, we use basically
the same social media. I went on a tangent on how my ex boyfriend treated me and he's on my snap stories everyday. I got heated and called him out. But this particular rant I did wasn't even about her... she got triggered and thought I was talking about her. So this is how I know she was talking about me. She screenshots my snap stories of my rant... and ever since then she started blasting someone she knew... me...

She made it clear it was me she was talking about. 1 time I mentioned a picture of us on my computer. She then goes in it while I'm sleep and deleted it. It's pretty petty if you ask me. All she could of done was told me not to post it.

Also, when she was drunk she spilled the beans how me and her got into it subliminally. WE... I.. did no sorts. She was clearly beefing on her own and I never really had a problem with the girl. Except the fact she's a really jealous person..

I never once retaliated because I'm not someone to throw dirt on anyone's name or anything like that. What she did to me was quiet foul.

I accepted the fact that she never liked me as well. I'm not mad at that. I actually have a lot of dirt on her as well as one of her "best" friends told me everything while me and the other girl were not friends. She has all this "dirt" on me just to use it on me to embaresse me or what have you.

I've also approached her in person about her shit talking and all she could do was be quiet.

So should I do the same or keep my morals. Because she's a low down dirty bitch and I'll never want to stoop as low as her but she may be giving me no choice.

I have started working at this restaurant for almost about a year and recently I met this wonderful guy that I found out worked seasonally because of his schooling at Indiana University. Do keep in mind that I am the shy, quiet, and introverted person. He started talking to me the first day I met him. He is a friendly guy and I am honestly surprised by how much I actually opened up to him within the expand of a couple of months. I felt like he and I became really good friends on the spot. We tell each other stories, jokes, work related stuff, and have really good conversations for the most part. Now eavesdropping on a coworker talking to my crush I found out about his girlfriend. This felt like a stab in the chest because he and I get along so well and I was starting to think that it was eventually going to blossom into something more than friendship eventually. He never once mentioned his girlfriend to me no matter what we talked about at work, and I can never understand why. The other day he stopped by at my work on his day off with some of his friends including his girlfriend, I casually said hi to him and talked with him a little bit before he went to go sit down with his friends and girlfriend he told me that he was hanging out with some friends and never mentioned his girlfriend. Maybe I am over thinking things but I can’t tell if he is just being friendly or if he is just secretly attracted to me in some way. Whenever I would say hi to him his face lights up, he would look me in my eyes for a long period of time whenever I talk to him, he is always smiling at me, he complimented how smart I was the other day, he is either making me smile or laugh, he is always saying hi and bye to me before and after work, and sometimes I would feel like he would act nervous around me or avoid me even though he and I are good friends. Why would he act this way even when he has a girlfriend? Is it attraction? Is he just being friendly and I am overthinking? Please help.