First and foremost, you have to separate yourself from him completely rather than be readily available. No more talking every few weeks/days/etc — go full cold Turkey. Give him a chance to really miss your presence in his life and to appreciate it because I don’t get the impression that he does. Second, you have to let go of “wanting the reward”. By this I mean, when we invest a lot of time and emotions into a person, we want it to pay off, sometimes it doesn’t and we have to be willing to accept that. On top of that you probably have fantasized about a relationship, the future, or whatever else. All of this combined just keeps you stagnant, waiting and hopeful. You have to release these things. Everything you wanted and hoped for with him, let it go and accept what’s actually happening. Lastly, let time do it’s thing. You didn’t fall for him overnight so you won’t get over him overnight as well. But once you remove yourself from that situation and allow yourself to grow and heal, eventually you will come to a place where you will be completely over him. But you’ve gotta start somewhere..
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