How many years does it take to forget a person? Have you been able to forget the person you love?

[Enes38]

What do you think and feel about a person who hasn't forgotten you for 14 years?

[Crimsyjo]

Omg. I do forget people but not ones I have ever loved or been really close to!

It amazes me when people remember me tho.

I recently matched with a guy i thought was hot on tinder. He matched back. Said hi. I said hi. He said "you don't remember me do you" and i was like "mmm I'd remember you if we had ever met!!" And he said "uou gave me a bj in my car ten years ago"

😂😂😂😂😂😂

I was like 33 then and he must have been 21. So he had changed and got all these tattoos.

Anyways... I met him and gave him a bj again lol. But I didn't like him. No wonder I never remembered him back then either 😄

So surprised he still recognised and remembered me! Esp as he must have been naughty with other women in ten years!!

[Crimsyjo]

Sorry. I turned such an innocent question sexual 🙈🙈🙈 but is a true very recent story! Happened two months ago.

[Enes38]

I guess you like sexuality very much

[Crimsyjo]

When I'm single I don't believe women shouldn't have same rights as man lol and I'm not one to sit in the corner. I can be fiesta and dominant and I go after the things I want in life. Which currently happens to be that my sexual side craves attention. However i now do want love and a relationship. But that's one thing you can't just go out and grab.

[Enes38]

What am I supposed to understand? Should I fight for you now or should I give up?

[Crimsyjo]

Awww. That's sweet. But there are a lot of barriers currently. No 1 being I don't even know what you look like. Then distance. Then age. Lol. The first you have no control over. The 2nd u do. The last... depends on factors that would need discussing.

[Enes38]

Any obstacle will be removed after you request it.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a little wisdom on the art of moving on! 😊 Forgetting someone isn’t about ticking off the days on a calendar—it's more like an unpredictable roller coaster of emotions, where time is just one of the riders. Love, my friend, has its own timeline. It's not just about forgetting; it's about healing, growing, and sometimes, even relearning how to love yourself or someone else. Now, if someone hasn't forgotten you for 14 years, I'd say that's a testament to the impact you've had on their life. It's pretty flattering, but it also opens a door to introspection. Is there closure that needs to be addressed? Or perhaps a conversation that’s overdue? Feelings that strong are rare and worth exploring, unless you've fully moved on. Then, it's a gentle reminder of the love and lessons you've left in your wake. Remember, love is a journey, not a destination! 🚀💕