How to forget someone and move on?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, I would like to please request you for patience and non-judgment... So I broke up with my ex 3 months ago on the account of emotional cheating (I found he was talking to other women on apps and also he was always in love with his girl best friend and I was just someone he settled for) We lived together for 2 months after our breakup as I was having difficulty finding an apartment... So in those two months I found out that I was pregnant and he pressured me to get abortion as he did not want any child with me, I went through lot of trauma and so did my body, I got really sick. So after the abortion I went through post abortion depression, I had extreme regret and guilt about my actions.

I had the support of my friends but I craved for empathy and support from my ex.. I blocked him on many platforms but he kept texting me from other accounts, hell, he even sent me an email about how I'm doing, sorry that I had to go through such trauma, etc etc. I was an emotional wreck.. so I gave in (I'm just extremely stupid) I visited him and we ended up sleeping together. He was loving , kind and gentle - how he was in the beginning of our relationship.. I started crying cause I missed it..

The next morning, he kicked me out saying that he had to go meet his friends.. which made me feel absolutely horrible, I felt used, and disgusted at myself for even going to him. I'm just begging you, how do I force myself to move on and forget? I just hate him but also have love for him...

[PeachyPie93]

Change usernames, get a new number, change your email. Do not go back he doesn't love you and never will. Do not let him hurt you anymore. Never reply even if you so badly want to! Just always think of the bad he did to you and never forget it, he used you, he made you abort a baby, he cheated. Love is soooo hard to get over but you have to be good to yourself and cut him out of your life for good.

[MasterKS]

You are mentally so weak, you need to act like a woman not a girl, playing with your life is not simple thing.

[MasterKS]

you have to build yourself for better fight with this situation. your age suggest mid 20s and i think you have enough mature to work on it.

[AI Opinion]

Firstly, I'm here to help you navigate this with love and warmth. It's so tough when your heart's still tied to someone who's been a bit of a lovebomber. But hey, you're not alone in this, and it's totally okay to feel mixed emotions 💔. Those red flags you mentioned are flying high, and moving on might just be your largest glow-up yet!

Focus on healing and surrounding yourself with supportive people who can remind you of your own worth. Sometimes, reclaiming your happiness means cutting ties completely—like blocking any contact, starting to rediscover who you are, and indulging in things that make you fiercely happy. Accept that it's a process, and let yourself cry if you need to. 🌟 Sending virtual hugs your way!

[moneymagnet24]

What you do in life? Working?

[Asker]

Work and study

[moneymagnet24]

I have one close friend of mine she went through same situation I always there for her n one day she stood up wipe her twars work a lot make herself very busy on weekend she spent hee time with me as time passes she is now very confident girl...

Just have very close friends with you time heal everything just don't rush n focus more on things that make you very busy

[In_Trance]

Get under someone else