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15 Random Facts About Me

I was working on a hefty take last week that I was intending to be a hard-hitting topic that would get the discussion going … and I accidentally xed it out, declined to save it because I thought it was another document...

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Break Up & Divorce

On being cheated on. And how I got over it.

This is a rather personal MyTake. I write not as a victim, but in retrospect as a observer to my own relationship. This happened about three years ago. While the memories don't haunt me anymore, they build up a heavily...

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Dating

6 Reasons Why You Should Hook Up Before Your First Date

I recently had a conversation with a guy about his dating habits, and his take on dating sparked my interest. As a girl, we are under the impression that going home with a guy before going on a date with him is simply...

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Entertainment & Arts

10 Books You Should Read

The Help by Kathryn Stockett I read this book twice. It's kind of a popular book and there's a movie based on it. Roxane Gay has a whole essay on how bad it is on her own book, Bad Feminist . She claims it reduces...

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Dating

Dating Your Friend's Ex: My story!

Let's start at the beginning with the my friend, I'll call her Jane* My father and her's were friends before I was born so I was basically forced to be around this girl I didn't really like but It was okay because she...

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Guy's Behavior

Guys, Guy friend acting very distant. Any input?

Okay, so I've known my guy friend for about three years and it was strictly platonic up until about a year and a half of knowing each other, when I eventually caught feelings. He got another girlfriend at that time and we...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Your Typical Story about a Not So Typical Friendzoning

If you're looking for a bit of a read, look no further. Feedback is very much welcomed! It just pisses me right the fuck off that I am on the complete opposite side of the planet... And I'm still feeling this torture. The...

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Relationships

No means No: Don't be peer pressure!

So since I am waiting on my laundry and I am bored I decided to make a mytake (that might had been done before I don't know Idc). About being peer pressure when my focus is more on being pressure to sex but this can apply...

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Break Up & Divorce

Should I call my ex out? What is his deal?

We broke up April. I haven't spoken to him since because he strung me along during exam season and asked for a break, when it seems he just wanted me to do the dirty work. I eventually dumped him after waiting for him &...

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Break Up & Divorce

What should I honestly do?

SwaggyD619

Xper 4 Age: 34

Ok I've posted before here for advice about my now ex girlfriend. So here's the deal a few weeks ago me and my ex of 1 and half years broke up. She fed me the whole distance and spark

Ok I've posted before here for advice about my now ex girlfriend. So here's the deal a few weeks ago me and my ex of 1 and half years broke up. She fed me the whole distance and spark was gone deal at first right. So I took that at face value figured their was something else that was an issue but left it alone cause I waiting for her to vocalize what it was. Fast forward a week and half I get a FB message from a former close friend of hers saying she basically cheated throughout the whole duration of our relationship. Me fucking pissed called her to finally get the truth still giving her the benefit of the doubt. Later that night she calls me says she did in fact cheat on me at this party like 2 months ago but tells me the FB message is far more exagerated. At this point Im devastated because I loved her with everything cared for her like no one before has and for her to do it shit killed me. My biggest issue was the fact she didn't have the courage to tell me with so many opportunities beforehand for example the last time I saw her she came to my house to get all her stuff I asked to to sit down and talk with me cause I knew her first reasoning wasn't the full truth. NOPE! She Leaves and I kinda start getting over it.

Ok now fast forward another week and half which is today feeling much better she calls me telling me her reason for cheating was cause she thought she could get away with it. Goes on to say there were 2 other times she cheated so now the story has changed again! Forgot to mention she tells me about how she slept with a dude after we broke up didn't really care but thinks she might be pregnant now doesn't know if its mine or his 😑 and Im just like wow now you're gonna be linked to someone who you dont even love for the rest of your life good job. so we got off the cheating topic and she says she misses me loves me and wants me to go on a date with her and I'm just like... WHAT? 😑

It sucks cause I do still love and care for her but the pregnant thing kills it😕

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The Futility of the Clap Back

For those of you who don't know it, I'm sure most do, to clap back at someone is simply return fire when someone disses you in some way. I've seen it mostly in myself, but since taking a break from it, I've seen it for...

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Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend said he wanted to break up because he feels like he needs to redefine his identify as man and he's going through a hardship right now?

my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We're both 28. His financial situation isn't good and it's always been that way since we've been together. He doesn't make much money at all and pays for a lot. Fast...

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Flirting

Should I ask my ex to meet?

So me and my ex were together for 2 and a half years, we broke up last year- but it wasn't a bad break up. He then got with some new girl and did all the things we didn't do, then they split this year about 6 months ago,...

NessaLone

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Other

This guy in my college class, open up to me. Is he seeing something I'm not seeing because he got attached fast to me?

I notice this guy got attached to me really quick and it was like we connected, lot's of laughther, and it was like we were like friends catching up. He also calls me stranger. So he was telling me that he sees spirits...

KeepitLoyalLove

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Guy's Behavior

Men read this and still find a way to call woman self centered

Perhaps I change the title... Men who are in it only for Sex Hopefully you will read it this time...This is something most men would take rather they cared for a woman or not. Many men string women along for years just...

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Guy's Behavior

Well he hasn't texted me in 4 days?

Well we have been together almost 2 months and he doesn't have data so he can't be on the enternet, but i know he can text. My last text was a 4 days ago and he hasn't responded. I dont want to call because he's always so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I'm so confuse right now. What should I do?

I only see this guy 2 or 3 days of the week at lunch. I know things can be awkward between us, because i never know what to say. I don't know but when a guy shows interest in me, my first reaction is to shut him out. He's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, GUYS!! Please give me your advice so I can move on. ?

My boyfriend and I talked for a month before we finally met and then we kind of jumped into dating (not labeled as a commited relationship yet) right after that. So we called each other boyfriend and girlfriend to make...

Christina14490

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Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why do guys say this if they don't mean it?

Anonymous

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When I start someone I make sure to ask him if he wants a relationship or not. Sometimes asking if he is ready to settle down or not. (I don't want just a hook up) Well after texting a

When I start someone I make sure to ask him if he wants a relationship or not. Sometimes asking if he is ready to settle down or not. (I don't want just a hook up) Well after texting a guy for 3 weeks (saying he wanted a relationship an almost proposed to his ex before they broke up) he decided he just wasn't ready for a relationship just yet and asked if we could be friends. He apologized about the whole thing and after a week of not talking he's my best friend now, but in the back of my mind I do wish we could go out again even though I feel like that will probably never happen.

I met this other guy at school and he told me that he wanted a relationship and wanted to settle down, even saying that a girlfriend should be someone you plan on marrying and that if I was just looking for sex I should just stop talking to him. we had our ups an downs after dating for a month an still said he barely knew me. something happened and he decided he wasn't ready for a relationship yet, but also didn't want to be friends b/c he didn't want me to forget my feelings for him. He said that after he cleared everything up in his life he would come back to me and that he misses me even if he starts seeing other girls in the meantime (which I didn't like hearing. I don't get why he could date them but not date me if he's not ready for anything?) I don't know whether to just forget this guy completely (hate him for all of this rollercoaster stuff and ignore him or keep my feelings in case he does comes back one day) either way I don't plan on staying single and "waiting" for someone who won't even call me thier girlfriend but it's still confusing. I'm scared he just wants to keep me around as an option but I think that's just the fear from my past haunting me.

So the question after a little bit of background. Why do guys say that they are ready for a relationship even if they aren't? Did I just get unlucky to find 2 guys in a row that tried but found they couldn't handle something serious yet?

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Break Up & Divorce

Why is he being so nice one minute then so horrible to me the next if he loves his new life?

We broke up 2 months ago he was fine at the beginning then we both got bit nasty as is normal from a break up as we still had to see each other due to having a baby. Then we were really good and he said he wanted us to be...

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