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I can tell when a girl thinks I don’t have enough money. Is that just by looking at me or what? I feel like girls write me off after a date or two after we start talking about what we do for work. I’m not the hottest guy on the planet, but I’m definitely not ugly, and I don’t feel like I’m boring when it comes to conversation. I’m for sure a great listener.

I’ve made a very comfortable life for myself at 26, but I hate showing it off. I still wear a clean t-shirt and jeans, a pair of adidas that I probably should replace soon after a couple years, and an Apple Watch all just like I did in college. I don’t have a car as I live in a city and have no problem with mass transit. The only thing I indulge in is I like flying helicopters and got my license, but it’s not something I share with people right off the bat. I do work in a slightly untraditional field, but with risk comes reward.

I lost my hair at 19 and shaved my head. Well turns out I have a skin condition that affects the scalp and really messes up the skin there so shaved isn’t going well either. I bought a very quality wig that is indistinguishable from real hair, even to the touch. I must emphasize good wigs you truly can’t tell. I’m very open about it, coworkers and others all know I wear it and I’m not insecure about it. I wear a wig, so what? I like how I look in it, no different that extensions or hair dye or makeup etc. everyone around me is astounded to know it’s fake and very chill about it. Honestly I think just being open about it is what helps, hiding and being way too protective if it gives off the insecure vibe.

anyway what are your thoughts?