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The Quality Woman test. Are you a quality woman to any lucky man out there? Vote "yes" only if you fit ALL (100%) of the stated criteria.

I agree with all of the criteria, but also made it realistic, so that ANY half-decent woman can fulfill it all. I didn't put things on here that are more subjective, such as looks, weight, age, etc.

And yes, I meet all of the criteria or male-equivalent criteria myself, so I would never ask for something I can't match. Feel free to make your own female-version for a Quality Man, if you wish.

Are you?

1. A natural-born female

2. Feminine in style and demeanor (at least, sometimes)

3. Heterosexual/straight (as in, attracted to men; not queer; not a lesbian or part-time lesbian in any way)

4. Monogamous; someone who won't cheat on a partner

5. Have clean hygiene (including bathing daily and shaving frequently)

6. Generally a good or decent person who treats others with respect

7. Possessing at least average intelligence or higher

8. Not on either political extremes, especially woke, progressive, or a feminist.

9. Not a hateful or toxic person

10. Not a shallow person or gold-digger

11. Someone who has a job, currently in school, or attended college

12. Someone with minimal tattoos (Let's say, five or less)

13. Not conceited, arrogant, or narcissitic

14. Not lazy or entitled

15. Someone who doesn't do drugs (including marijuana)

16. Someone with history of physical or verbal domestic abuse

17. Someone who has been with less men in their lifetime than their current age (aka, 'not a whore')

18. Someone with no STD's or history of STD's

19. Someone who has never had children out of marriage

20. Someone who has not had two or more abortions

Do you fulfill all the criteria?

I know that my efforts used to be fairly inconsistent when I was younger but I've been putting in a lot of time & effort to improve at the things I care about and I can proudly say that I've been putting in daily effort with exercise & art for over a year since the pandemic started (I've been working on many other things as well)

With that being said, the progression has been pretty slow and I find that a little demoralizing because of my age. I'm almost ready to start performing music live again now that things are starting to open up where I'm from but I still lack the ability to put on a compelling show solo (I have hard time singing & playing an instrument simultaneously) so lucky I'm working with another person and I can focus on just one or the other when it comes to live playing.

My fitness and health has improved, I lost a lot weight and toned up since the pandemic started. I've been getting some compliments from guys and girls I know but still haven't achieved my body goals and as well (embarrassingly enough to admit) I still struggle with getting dates even with my improved shape and current physique.

I could name other examples of areas of improvement but I'll stick with those - my point is that I'm putting in all this time & effort into these things & besides the little fulfillment I get from maintaining & accomplishing these tasks I'm still not truly succeeding or getting what I want.

So it's got me questioning my time & effort because my patience is being tested, I know I don't have forever but I can't improve fast enough, I still feel powerless as if what I'm chasing after is forever outreach and slipping away.

I don't know what else to do other than try harder but I keep coming up short.

Every now and then, I find myself watching compilation videos of a bunch a different clips of them; Oozing thick paint, scraping stuff off stuff, some rhythmic factory machine, and all those things. Is it just hypnotic and calming for men, or do women like that stuff too? I'm lucky, since I have a career that let's me do something oddly satisfying like that, sometimes.

I've met some girls who say it's not any easier for them, or that they're lucky to have found a boyfriend, but from what I could gather their like count on dating platforms often reaches the thousands and their inbox the size limit. Guys, on the other hand, often do pretty well when they get a like per week.

Now I'm aware that most of these messages girls get are probably disposable one-liners, but I mean there's gotta be someone decent in there, no? I've seen a handsome guy, with a nice personality and plenty of skills still post online how hard it was for him to get a date. So, I conclude that women are just extra picky online. Not that I'm complaining about it; it makes sense when you have a lot of options available.

It just makes me wonder why many girls claim it's difficult nonetheless.