Things are pretty good but why can’t I be happy go lucky?

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I think I might be depressed and I have no one to talk to. No friends. I have hubby. We love each other. We have family. Pretty good jobs. New big house. I feel stressed. I’m always tired. I have no outlet. Girls at work don’t really include me. Family doesn’t talk to me much. I feel awkward and ugly and not important. We’ve been trying for a baby for a year now. Nothing. Some days I’m glad no child to bother our time. Some days I cry with heartache. I just feel alone and hubby doesn’t seem to notice or care or feel that way at all. I need a friend. I don’t have time for friends though. 😭 I don’t know how to be happy. Thanks for the read and I could use any advice anyone has.

45Fstraight · Accepted Answer

First of all Jesslin, you are not depressed. You are disappointed. You already have a great list of things you are thankful for, so now add a list of things that make you feel happy (i. e., cats, swimming in the ocean, red roses, singing, etc.). Review those lists every single day.

Schedule time each day to laugh. Watch funny you tube videos or an episode of a funny sitcom. Laughter is important.

Also... I had difficulty conceiving my 2nd child. dm me and I will tell you how I got past the difficulty of conceiving. Who knows? It might work for you too.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I was depressed and a lot of what you say resonates with me. I have a friend who is a wellness coach that told me that depression can be caused if you are out of the loop of control over your life.
Try to find out what is causing the problem and work towards a solution. Even if you do not fix the problem, the act of working to fix it may make you feel more in control.
Try to make some friends. Even if you just make friends with a couple of people on this site. See if it helps. Sometimes being able to just vent a little to somebody it can help a lot.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like depression to me, due to stress from baby side of things, coupled with work, lack of friends, you don’t have an emotional outlet.

have you siblings you are close to, parents thst you can take to?

I would really advise booking in to a counselling centre and have a chat.

it’s worth getting an early handle on your depression

BeachLuvR97 · Answer

I feel very much the same way. Everything is breaking down--can't even keep up with maintenance/repairs. I feel so distant from the world, so desperate to have a close friendship... I tried to message you, but I couldn't. When I talk to people, I build them up, not tear them down. That is my "rule," if you don't mind me calling it out.

Please feel free to message me.

jjj101010 · Answer

Hang in there, enjoy what u have, life will make its own arrangements.

Zygum · Answer

Change your attitude, be social and mix with good and reliable people, your hubby is disappointed by your attitude, behavior like a lover of early stage, change your sex fantasies

Anonymous · Answer

I envy that you met your husband while in your 20s, sadly many people don't meet the love of their life until later in life such as 30s or more

Anonymous · Answer

Seems like you need some friends, maybe even a hobby that would be something that others would do with you

Waldoe · Answer

online friends are Real... just accept a friend request and have a chat

Sevenpointfive · Answer

you need a bigger dick. he is not pleasing you and he knows it

Iamcoming · Answer

I can become helper you can write me. I recommend get help of a doctor

Anonymous · Answer

look into the nephilim when the angels had sex with the women and they gave birth to giants  Genesis 6:4

WowwGirl · Answer

Depends there are disorders that you may have

Iron_Man · Answer

Don’t you have a brand new husband enjoy life

Anonymous · Answer

at least you have a husband.

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