Search Results: choosing between his ex and me

In the first option. This candidate was already the countrys president one term like 12 years ago, and after he finished his term he left the country to work in Europe. During his time in Europe he was accused of corruption that he received some money illegally. Here is his bio so you can understand more oif this case and political careeer and his biography.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jos%C3%A9_Mar%C3%ADa_Figueres

The second option. The guy was accused when he was working at the World Bank of sexual harrasment and it is believed he can't set foot again at the World Bank premises. He says his case was dismissed and the accusations have no ground or base. This current candidate since working abroad for many many years, he really does not have a political career made in the country. or political experience until he returned to the country as he was appointed by our current President to be the countrys Economy Secretary.. He has PHD in Economy

Here is his bio so you can understand more of the case

.https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20211018-world-bank-mishandled-sexual-misconduct-charges-report
https://english.madhyamam.com/world/world-bank-mishandled-sexual-misconduct-claims-internal-tribunal-859252

These 2 men now are running for my country s Presidency second round in April. Both of them claimed that what they did are false and never happened and now the media and social media are bombarding with news to discredit one or the other one so the population wiill believe for real the story and vote for one more then the other.

Also anotehr news running at this moment are that the First option (Figueres) people claimmed he was sued by agression by his ex wife when then both were married many years ago. Citizens and the media (the ones who will not vote for him) believe it actually happened as there is proof.

I wouldn’t snoop through my boyfriend’s phone without his permission. But I honestly feel like I can’t believe what he says because he’s lied to me and broke my trust. He’s recently started talking to a girl he slept with while were on a break, she doesn’t even qualify as an ex. He never wanted to date her and he made that clear. Yet she wanted a relationship with him and was very childish when she found out we were getting back together. I don’t mind if they’re just civil friends, but it does make me uncomfortable to think of them being too close and I don’t believe that’s just jealousy and insecurity talking. I believe if he’s in a committed relationship with me, there should be boundaries between them.

I asked him some time ago if they were talking again, and he lied to me. Then a week later I brought it up saying how uncomfortable it made me felt, and that’s when he decided to tell me. I was hurt. I have been cheated on before, and my ex used text to cheat. So I do have trust issues, but at the same time my current boyfriend is displaying the same behavior my ex did when he started cheating on me and I just can’t ignore it.

I asked if he could show me the texts to clarify there’s nothing going on, and he told me it was an invasion of privacy. But he broke my trust and our relationship is on the fence now. So he told me he’d think about it. I’m so confused, if he has nothing to hide then why would he not want to just show me and things could get back on track. But if he chooses to keep hiding things from me then obviously this relationship isn’t going anywhere.

So is it really controlling of me to ask for the texts? If so, what are some other options for us to work through this?