Search Results: scared of affection

Why he won’t text me back?

so I dated this guy for two days we were in relationship for one day and then he broke up with me over text message. he said “Hey I'm sorry to do this through the phone but it's been on my mind that I don't think we'll be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, How can I turn my childhood friendship into a friends with benefits?

I would like to state that I am not sure I want to sacrifice it all just for a little sex, I am just unhappy not being able to have a sincere and fulfilling relationship with reality, I 19 (M) have been friend with this...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Boyfriend cheated texted another girl but this second time I am pregnant what should I do?

been with my boyfriend for about a year but dating since 202 of October the first time I caught him texting another girl his excuse was he thought I was cheating so he let his insecurities get to him so he did it revenge....

Saggirl14

Xper 2 Age: 32

HHow do I deal with the fact that im like a 6 year old girl emotionally and mentally?

Sensitive Very emotional Shy Easily scared and easily creeped out Sweet Needs tender love and care and affection from people Submissive

Or94btbr

Xper 1 Age: 30

Do I intimidate him?

So I’ve been hanging out with this guy, we have made out and he tries to show affection by putting his arms around me and stuff but he hasn’t told me his intentions. He also has invited me to a concert in two weeks. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, How to deal with this situation?

seeing a man for 4 months, caught feelings very quickly. he was very open and honest with how he felt about me. After he caught feelings he did tell me he was scared to get hurt again - his ex left him out of the blue...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend took me for granted, I never spoke up, & now he is dating someone else. I can't stop crying. What do I do?

Hey all, I had a relationship last year where I felt a bit that my boyfriend definitely took me for granted. He never made me a priority, almost never wanted to spend time w/me, and only showed affection like once a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex treats his new girlfriend so much better. I was treated like shit but always tried. How can I stop feeling used?

Hi guys. I am a very shy, sensitive girl, but I went out of my way to take care of my last boyfriend. I would get him gifts, compliment him, spend quality time, give space. He often ignored me, seemed oblivious, never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Could you stay in a relationship with someone that is constantly stressed and lashes out at you and says horrible things towards you?

My ex suffered from PTSD and bi polar 2 and was always stressed out about shit and depressed I was pretty much her punching bag and she would say horrible things toward me , Criticize me put me down at times and I would...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

I feel like we should break up but I’m afraid I’ll regret it?

My boyfriend has been very stressed for most of our short relationship and it’s taken a toll on us. There hasn’t been any affection for the past two months. Sex life non existent. I feel emotionally and physically distant...

HayleyMarie

Xper 7 Age: 33

Why do most guys like cuddling so much?

Ok I know this question might sound odd or even stupid but I am not very good with the whole affection thing. I am very awkward when it comes to cuddling and tend to overthink a lot which just scares me off the whole...

Neykie09

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

I'm confused, what should I do?

I'm not used to affection, love or intense emotions and they cause me immense anxiety. One guy in particular makes me feel all these. Because of the pandemic I only see him every few months which causes me to gain and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I wait or should I go?

Hello! I'm Ela and I've been dating this guy for two months. We are both students and we met on a dating app. The thing is that I like him a lot, and I want to be in a relationship with him, but he is hesitant and tells...

Ela909

Xper 2 Age: 26

What really happened that his feelings changed after showing me so much affection and care?

I was seeing a guy for around 5 months and I could feel his feelings are developing in a good direction. He became more affectionate and caring. While sleeping together he was taking his time more and started keeping eye...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Yuppies, why are you the way that you are?

Im waiting for the day socialism is cemented in American society so you can feel and act human like the rest of us. emotions, fun, , humbled, affection not straight up robotic, soft , sensitive and get scared or jump when...

Oppressed_Leecher

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why am I still thinking of a narcissist I no longer have?

Do you like this guy? Not anymore. Not as much. Have you moved on from this guy? In a way, yes. How long have you known this guy? Honestly, a few months. There was this guy I was talking to. His behavior was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Warm or cold towards guys, what works the best?

In the beginning phase of dating a guy, I have always been afraid of showing too much interest as I believe it scares guys away. Therefore, I show affection, but not too much and only in a responsive way to his actions. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)