I broke up with my boyfriend but I dont know if it was the right choice?

[anonpabo]

i broke up with him yesterday & we decided to stay friends. when we were in the relationship, for the last 2-3 days i just found myself not wanting to talk much to him , but now that we are broken up i want to do nothing more than talk to him. im scared that if we get back together the same thing will repeat itself. i also can't tell if i miss him because of his affection or just him in general

[HollyK21]

So are you saying that you broke up with him because for the last 2-3 days you haven’t wanted to talk to him?

[anonpabo]

yes but its more than that. this has happened with other people before and it always ends badly, i get very anxious talking to people for too long and it started developing with him and that wasn't a good sign. the anxiety also made me question my feelings for him to the point where it would send me into a spiral. he didn't deserve someone who wasn't for sure about their feelings and if they wanted to talk to him or not.

[HollyK21]

If that’s the case then it sounds like you made the right choice. Since you just broke up yesterday, it’s only natural to miss the familiarity of him. But maybe you’ve got some stuff to work on (like your anxiety) before you’re ready to be in a relationship. You want to be able to bring your best self to the table when it’s time to date.

[20yearsolder]

After 2 or 3 days of not wanting to talk to him? Seems like a pretty quick decision to me. As you can see now that if you had stayed and weathered the situation you'd wouldn't be missing his attention and affection

[anonpabo]

there was more to the story that i explained in another reply , but right now i am okay with the decision i made and think it will be for the better

[User3191989]

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