I just broke up with my boyfriend and dont know what to do with my life anymore?

[Anonymous]

he was the only one who loved me. i dont have loving parents, siblings or anyone really. but i realized we had to part ways cause we were incompatible in many ways. we tried to break up many times but got back together.

now I miss him very much but we've decided to not talk these days. i miss him with all my heart but i need to heal myself.

what i want to ask is it ok if i go for a casual relationship? or what should i do? please advice. I'm totally alone.

[ChiTown33]

The way you phrased the question suggests that you lost sight of who you are. Personally I don't believe in casual relationships. That is, everything is casual until it's not. But everyone I know I care about ergo i don't consider anyone casual. I guess what I'm saying is do what you need to do. But don't exploit other people for the benefit of your own feelings.
Back to my initial point. As I said it sounded like you were suggesting you lost sight of who you are. That should be priority number 1 before you get into any new relationship. Then once you know who you are, what your motivations are, what drives you. Then learn how to blend it with that new person. And never sacrifice so much of yourself for someone that you ever lose that. Believe me you're relationship potential will be stronger and you'll be happier when you are your true self.
Good luck!

[omnivert]

Love you for sharing it. But as I care for you as a stranger, there will be, no relationships for 6 months for you.

Get yourself first and put everything on time.

Let the weight on your lungs or heart be it.
Try to concentrate on mindfulness.

Do meditation. It will work a hell lot for you.

And the boy is going to call or contact you anyway in between 2 months, so be on your legs when he does it and at that time you will know what you have to do.

[WhitneySnow]

Go for a casual relationship but don’t rebound too hard

[Jim___Blakes]

From my experience, don't cry or be sad. That doesn't help.

You've no one to think about now. You can do whatever you want. There's no one to question you. Comeon try casual dating. Use dating apps. Hangout with whomever you want. Travel a lot.

You won't always get this golden chance.
You'll later fall in love again and you're again trapped lol. Live a life you'll remember

[UniquelyBasic]

Stay away from dating for a while even casual dating. Work on yourself and your mental state before committing to anyone else.

[Asker]

i don't feel like i can commit to anyone ever again. i don't even think i can Love anyone this much.

[UniquelyBasic]

Thats why I said to wait

[Anonymous]

It may be worth looking at the relationship and seeing if it was the right choice to part ways. That’s just my opinion.

[Asker]

i don't want to give myself hope again. we broke up many times and got back together just cause of that hope. logically i Know that he and i can't be together.

we were more compatible in the beginning of the relationship cause we had similar opinions and beliefs. now he's totally changed. and he can't respect me and my beliefs. there are many other factors too. like our age difference, family issues etc