A good friend of mine was throwing a party where my boyfriend and I were invited to. There were also a bunch of people we both knew, expecally one friend which i know little bit better because we were both doing an internship in the same company. We all were all drinking pretty heavely and this friend was buying rounds shots after shots. We were talking and having fun und laught way too much and at some point and i grabed his face and gave hin a kiss - not in a romantic way - more like: you sick mother***, you made it. I can't really understand why I overreacted like this. I really do not find him attractive in eather way, i even think he is a little bit stupid. My boyfriend is now mad (i understand it) but he doesn't want to break up with me. I really dont know what to do at this point, i feel so stupid. even if, i dont want to throw away eights years of relationship bc of something like this. what can i do to make things better? Should he break up with me?
You do things when intoxicated that you would never do when sober.
However, those actions done while intoxicated only reflect the inner wish that inhibition prevents you from doing when you are sober. To sum up: to kiss that guy is something that you wanted to do unconsciously.
That is of course a problem because your boyfriend witnessed it and you cannot pretend that it was a mistake. It was something that you wanted to do but would never do when sober.
You don't want to throw away 8 years of relationship but you initiated the very first step. Who knows what else you want to do when you lose all your inhibitions.
The only reasonable thing to do is to have a serious face-to-face conversation with your boyfriend and hope he will "forget" this incident and hope for his leniency. I know I would not have it.
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You did a stupid thing and your boyfriend wants go stay with you. What's the problem?
Learn from your mistake (don't do it again) and be happy that you have a good boyfriend.
if you kissing someone I would dump you there and then. choose who you want to be with and keep them happy.
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