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When you are in the early stages of dating, you are excited about spending time with your new partner, and you want to be attentive to everything that he or she is saying.

Or. . . is that what you want? Your best friend just broke up with her boyfriend of two months and she texts you, reaching out for support. Or your little sister can't decide what to wear to the school dance tonight and she texts asking your opinion. Do you take the time to respond now or do you stay attuned to your date's soliloquy about himself (or herself?) Which is more important?

What does your date think when you are on the phone texting and ignoring them? You are supposed to be on your best behavior when you are dating; is this really as good as it gets with you? Are you addicted to your phone and can't resist when you hear that notification of a new text?

If you have had this experience, you probably feel very resolute in your attitude on this subject. What do you think?

On my drive home from work I like to play spot the drug addict

When you reveal the truth to this world
To the people, you care about.
But everybody would rather live a distorted fantasy
under the veil of an illusion
of they think the world should be.
Instead of what it is
This is the cause of their suffering
and they cannot see it.
You try to use logic, analogies, examples whatever it takes
to show them reality
Just because you care
Expecting nothing in return
So that they can stop this cycle.
This cycle of suffering.
Then you realized people react emotionally before they think.
Every single time.
Then you realize this to be human nature.
You go against it, you get fucked.
They'll agree with what you said
but do nothing
Then sometimes you'll get outcasted,
people think your ideas are weird,
fuck you off
Until they need you to help them again.
Speak some common sense into them again after some sad event
It's worst when it's a group
they all think you're the villain
because of your "radical" views.
Then why do they all keep coming back
and calling for you
So how can you help them?
Sugarcoated,
tell them everything is going to be okay and listen
LOL
But that doesn't do anything in the long run.
Just a short term solution.
They feel good for a few days or weeks
then step back into this cycle of endless suffering
Everyone seems to be addicted to this familiarity
The familiarity of self-destruction
They can't escape it
They truly hate change.
They can't change
And it brings tears to your eyes to see
But they ask you to help them change...
and you can't say no
you see people stuck in toxic relationships,
addiction issues,
self-hate
Sadness
pain,
self-torture.
eternal suffering
etc
And there's nothing you can do about it.
Maybe I'm doing it wrong...