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Hey GAG , it’s been a while.

I have re downloaded this app to ask a confrontational topic about whether I should wear shorts in front of my boyfriend’s family. Me and my boyfriend are going back home to visit his parents for their wedding and we will be staying with them, it’s his mom dad and two younger brothers. On a regular basis, I wear gym shorts as a daily wear. I have created outfits and ordered from SHEIN to avoid my daily habits of wearing shorts, but I will wear shorts when I work out for sure. My problem is, when me and my boyfriend go to the gym, his brothers may want to tag along OR i might workout in their garage and use their tread mill. Half my workout consist of me wearing an oversized sweater dress to do cardio and the other half is taking it off and doing weights. Should I do my best to avoid being in gym shorts at all times? If i workout out in their garage I would of course need to come back inside the house and shower. I will be doing my workouts as early as I can. I just don’t know if it’s crossing boundaries or I’m just over thinking it. I’m just doing my best to not make my bfs mom feel some type of way. But I will say, she is young spirited and wears gym shark herself so I just have no idea if would be ok if I did too. And if they’re any girls who would like to give some insight on what they wear around their bfs families would be great thanks all!!

For a little over 2 years, I gamed online with two guys. In the early stages we used to game together more often but it wasn’t as often in the last yr. Usually it was at minimum 2-3 times a week & for hours, it was through a voice chat and eventually we added each other on social media. We met during Covid which explained how we had more free time but the fact we spoke through social media when we weren’t gaming + the rate we spoke at made me think there was a decent thing going. One guy was a bit older than me & was dl annoyed by the other guy that was closer to my age.

Long story short, I kind of got annoyed overtime with the cockiness of the older guy & decided to unfriend him, to be fair I removed the other guy too since I didn’t only want to be on speaking terms with one. The younger guy months later msged me & tried adding me back twice, the older guy msged me and asked why I got rid of him. I was blunt, he apologized & he told me about something really traumatic that happened to him. I was sympathetic & added him back maybe a month later.

After a few months of him not attempting to talk to me, I removed him because I got the impression he didn’t want anything to do with me. I’m pretty sure the two guys aren’t on each other’s friend lists either & they both follow me on IG still. Shortly after I removed the older guy again, he likes/comments on one of my IG posts. Literally a yr later, he looks at maybe 1-3 of my IG stories & this past weekend we were in a gaming session again. That was kinda rare to happen tbh since they’re so random but we didn’t interact AT ALL.

I mean these 2 guys were usually the ones to initiate interacting with me, the older guy very later on shared his # & even called me a “good friend”. Tbh I considered them online friends & would’ve been down to talk again if everyone was actually all in. I don’t think I’m one to get overattached but I’m surprised how they don’t seem to care at all.